frigidweirdo
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I'm not picking and choosing how this goes, I'm explaining it because you don't understand. As business owners, they are free to choose who they conduct business with. As consumers, they are allowed to choose who they buy a cake from. They cannot FORCE someone to make a cake for them, and they should not be allowed to, that infringes on the rights of another individual. There's no getting around THAT fact.They're not, the people who want the cake are imposing themselves on that business when they are fully capable of buying it somewhere else. They can buy from their competition, it's not a complicated issue. Congrats to the business, they just turned away a demographic, they'll feel that until they change their minds.Dear frigidweirdo
A. In the case of the people on the plane,
if they have an issue riding together, they
either resolve the issue civilly or the people who
can't, separate from each other and not impose on
everyone else. So No, the man with the problem
doesn't impose on all the others. Or the other people
don't discriminate against the man but allow him the
chance to resolve the conflict so they can agree on a policy.
B. with business, I would recommend that customers and companies sign Mediation Agreements and Arbitration Waivers. So if a conflict arises in the course of doing business, either they resolve by mediation or arbitration,
or agree NOT to conduct business together if they cannot resolve their differences civilly and without incurring legal action or costs. This is to prevent both. So people should refrain from doing business together who can't respect each other's beliefs. it's a two-sided policy.
If you want your beliefs respected, it makes sense to respect the beliefs of others, and they do the same for you! Common Sense!
If people with beliefs sign up to do business, then they sign up to accept the laws of doing business. If they don't want to go against their religious beliefs, they're perfectly free to no sign up to do business.
So, a man chooses to sit on a plane with no females, so all the females have to get off the bus then?
You talk about "restricting rights", what do you mean? All rights are restricted. Freedom of Speech doesn't protect treason, libel, hate speech etc. Freedom of Religion, you do know that polygamy is banned in the US, don't know, even though the Mormons claim it as something religious? The Sun Dance and Potlatch were banned by the US govt too. Any religion that wants human sacrifice will find that this is banned too. There's nothing new in restricting rights.
So, people resolve things or the person who has the problem doesn't impose themselves on others. Until the point comes where two people aren't resolve the problem. Then you have courts to deal with it. If both sides have a problem, then what? Who goes away?
Why are Christians imposing themselves on someone who just wants a cake for a wedding?
If people who can't do business together just stay apart, what happens when everyone doing business in a town decides they won't serve black people.
All of a sudden you get into the realm of "do we want our society to be divided"?
You're trying to pick and choose the way this goes. I'm not going to let you.
The Christians are imposing their religious views on people who walk into their shop.
The buyers of cakes might be imposing their views on those who they ask to make the cake for them.
There's no way of getting round this fact that both have views.
The Christians are saying that anything that goes against their views, whatever they might be, will be met by you no longer being able to shop there.
The buyers aren't asking for acceptance of those views, just that you make the cake regardless of whether you think it's right or wrong.
Can a Christian not make a cake for a gay wedding and yet think the gay wedding is wrong? They still hold their beliefs.
You say they can buy from the competition. However what you're advocating is that businesses can discriminate based on beliefs, and therefore in small towns there might only be one place to shop, and therefore people are being forced to go outside of town to get what they want.
This, for me, is not acceptable.
As I have said many times.
A) the business people can just not open up a business. If the feel business law which prevents discrimination, division etc within society, then they just don't do it.
B) They can just make rules like "we don't make wedding cakes", then there is no problem. Someone wants a wedding cake, they don't ask for a wedding cake but just a cake. Or they say "no political slogans" or there are many ways around this. By just being stupid, they're going to get caught out.
But personally, people who claim to be Christians and discriminate are scum anyway.
When they turn away those consumers, they lose said consumers, and that's their problem, and they are free to make that decision. Nobody has a right to force another to do something for them, whether they're giving those people money for it or not. You cannot FORCE someone to conduct business with you.
They shouldn't have to narrow the scope of their business because they don't want to make a cake with two people of the same gender on top, as they're free to choose how they conduct their own business; It's their business.
I agree, as the Bible states that Christians should love their neighbor, and that everyone is their neighbor. However, people are free to be unlikable, it's their decision.
As business owners they are NOT free to choose who they do business with. They've signed a contract with the state and they have AGREED to accept the laws that apply to businesses.
Such laws protect consumers from discrimination. I forget a lot of the terminology with this, which is annoying because it's only with that terminology that you can easily find information about this.
But I'm not really sure that we need to get into that detail. It's just simple to accept that businesses sign up to different law. They make this choice and they have to agree to this. Then they get annoyed when they go against such law and claim their rights are being infringed upon.
You're thinking about commerce and how it should be totally free market. I think the Wall Street Crash and the Great Depression showed quite clearly that unregulated Capitalism doesn't work.