No she didn't. But she argued with the caller, claiming that Whites using the N word must be okay, since Blacks use it, totally ignoring the social reality that there is a difference.
So we can use cracker and honky and they can't? If we are all so equal, why the different rules governing what one group can or can not do. All that does is continue to perpetuate racial differences.
Yes. If you are using a word to demean someone it is a demeaning word. It really is that simple.
You and I are absolutely on the same page here. Words intended to hurt can hurt regardless of what the words are.
But I have asked and have yet to get an answer:
If black people can use the 'n' word in a way that is not intended to hurt or demean, why can't white people do the same? Dr. Laura's whole point is that the word has no ability to demean or hurt unless it is used to demean or hurt. And why should black people have a word they can use but white people can't. Would it be acceptable for white people to have a word that black people could not use?
From the dance scene in "An Officer and a Gentleman"
As Sid and Lynette dance, Zack and Paula have some punch at the refreshment table.
ZACK
Hey, what kind of name is Pokrifki?
PAULA
Polish. What kind of name is Mayo?
ZACK
Italian. My mom was Irish. I got her
ears. But the rest is all wop.
PAULA
Where are you from, Mayo the Wop?
ZACK
Everywhere and nowhere, Paula the
Polack.
Wop and Polack can be used as offensive terms. Here they are not. Should such terms be offensive in all and every context? Or when used non offensively, are they just words?
If the 'n' word is to be the highlighted and worst offensive term in the world, then nobody should use it for anything. But if it can be placed in non offensive context in the black community. . . . .
And again I feel need to add the disclaimer: I personally don't use the 'n' word as an insult or stereotype or term of endearment. And I am uncomfortable with ALL people, black and white who do.