Do You Have a LOW sex drive?

[ChrisL]

we make do. He's not dissatisfied. He has turned me down, so, I don't feel badly....

If you don't want sex one night and he does, tell him to go lay down in the bed, put some vasaline or KY gel in your throwing hand and Jack that mother ****** off.

That would be "work." Lol.

 

[Bonzi]

I don't have issues with that.. never have needed KY
yes, jacking is work, my hand gets tired. It take too long. I'm not good at hiding my feelings
And yes, I am selfish. I will sacrifice a lot, my mind, my dignity, my freedom, but I'm drawing the line there... and with giving oral. gross.

 

[sealybobo]

we make do. He's not dissatisfied. He has turned me down, so, I don't feel badly....

Well, like I said, maybe he is having some personal issues in that department and is embarrassed about it, and you certainly don't seem to be willing to help him out.

You say creepy guys turn you off to being in a relationship. This kind of thing turns me off to settling down with one woman. Next thing you know you are trapped in a sexless relationship. **** that. If you don't want to have sex use your hand. Easiest massage you'll ever give

 

[ChrisL]

we make do. He's not dissatisfied. He has turned me down, so, I don't feel badly....

Well, like I said, maybe he is having some personal issues in that department and is embarrassed about it, and you certainly don't seem to be willing to help him out.

You say creepy guys turn you off to being in a relationship. This kind of thing turns me off to settling down with one woman. Next thing you know you are trapped in a sexless relationship. **** that. If you don't want to have sex use your hand. Easiest massage you'll ever give

Meh, it sounds to me like The Bonze just wants an ego boost.

 

[ChrisL]

I don't have issues with that.. never have needed KY
yes, jacking is work, my hand gets tired. It take too long. I'm not good at hiding my feelings
And yes, I am selfish. I will sacrifice a lot, my mind, my dignity, my freedom, but I'm drawing the line there... and with giving oral. gross.

Do you love your husband? Do you care about him at all?

 

[sealybobo]

I don't have issues with that.. never have needed KY
yes, jacking is work, my hand gets tired. It take too long. I'm not good at hiding my feelings
And yes, I am selfish. I will sacrifice a lot, my mind, my dignity, my freedom, but I'm drawing the line there... and with giving oral. gross.

You just said jacking him off takes too long and your hand gets tired. Let me say it again. Get some KY!

If you don't like dick in your hand mouth or vajayjay maybe you don't like men or sex.

 

[Bonzi]

I don't have issues with that.. never have needed KY
yes, jacking is work, my hand gets tired. It take too long. I'm not good at hiding my feelings
And yes, I am selfish. I will sacrifice a lot, my mind, my dignity, my freedom, but I'm drawing the line there... and with giving oral. gross.

You just said jacking him off takes too long and your hand gets tired. Let me say it again. Get some KY!

If you don't like dick in your hand mouth or vajayjay maybe you don't like men or sex.

it's hard to keep your hand firm with any lubrication. it's actually easier w/out.
if it could be done in like 5-10 minutes I'd do it.
I like it in the vajayjay - no problem there.... don't mind it in my hand either as long as I don't have to be like a engine piston with it.

 

[sealybobo]

I don't have issues with that.. never have needed KY
yes, jacking is work, my hand gets tired. It take too long. I'm not good at hiding my feelings
And yes, I am selfish. I will sacrifice a lot, my mind, my dignity, my freedom, but I'm drawing the line there... and with giving oral. gross.

Cutting the grass is work and tiring too yet Mr bonzi does it every week.

The grass needs to be cut and that dick ain't gonna suck itself.

 

[Bonzi]

I don't have issues with that.. never have needed KY
yes, jacking is work, my hand gets tired. It take too long. I'm not good at hiding my feelings
And yes, I am selfish. I will sacrifice a lot, my mind, my dignity, my freedom, but I'm drawing the line there... and with giving oral. gross.

Cutting the grass is work and tiring too yet Mr bonzi does it every week.

The grass needs to be cut and that dick ain't gonna suck itself.

no this is how it goes in the Bonzi hh.
I do the inside work
he does the outside work (but I have to help)

I don't ask him to do anything for me. Well, very little, and even that he'll complain about when we argue.
Trust me. He has the upper hand and better part of this deal.

 

[mudwhistle]

if so, what makes you think it's low?
How often do you want to have sex?

Only once a day. Used to be I wanted to have sex 24/7.

 

[sealybobo]

I don't have issues with that.. never have needed KY
yes, jacking is work, my hand gets tired. It take too long. I'm not good at hiding my feelings
And yes, I am selfish. I will sacrifice a lot, my mind, my dignity, my freedom, but I'm drawing the line there... and with giving oral. gross.

You just said jacking him off takes too long and your hand gets tired. Let me say it again. Get some KY!

If you don't like dick in your hand mouth or vajayjay maybe you don't like men or sex.

it's hard to keep your hand firm with any lubrication. it's actually easier w/out.
if it could be done in like 5-10 minutes I'd do it.
I like it in the vajayjay - no problem there.... don't mind it in my hand either as long as I don't have to be like a engine piston with it.

if so, what makes you think it's low?
How often do you want to have sex?

Only once a day. Used to be I wanted to have sex 24/7.

Aren't you supposed to go see a doctor after 7 hours of that?

 

[ChrisL]

I don't have issues with that.. never have needed KY
yes, jacking is work, my hand gets tired. It take too long. I'm not good at hiding my feelings
And yes, I am selfish. I will sacrifice a lot, my mind, my dignity, my freedom, but I'm drawing the line there... and with giving oral. gross.

Cutting the grass is work and tiring too yet Mr bonzi does it every week.

The grass needs to be cut and that dick ain't gonna suck itself.

no this is how it goes in the Bonzi hh.
I do the inside work
he does the outside work (but I have to help)

I don't ask him to do anything for me. Well, very little, and even that he'll complain about when we argue.
Trust me. He has the upper hand and better part of this deal.

Awww. Poor baby. Let's have a pity party.

 

[Bonzi]

I'm fine. anyway, just telling it like it is!

 

[sealybobo]

I don't have issues with that.. never have needed KY
yes, jacking is work, my hand gets tired. It take too long. I'm not good at hiding my feelings
And yes, I am selfish. I will sacrifice a lot, my mind, my dignity, my freedom, but I'm drawing the line there... and with giving oral. gross.

Cutting the grass is work and tiring too yet Mr bonzi does it every week.

The grass needs to be cut and that dick ain't gonna suck itself.

no this is how it goes in the Bonzi hh.
I do the inside work
he does the outside work (but I have to help)

I don't ask him to do anything for me. Well, very little, and even that he'll complain about when we argue.
Trust me. He has the upper hand and better part of this deal.

Are you really 50 like Chris said? I thought you were young. That pic didn't look like a 50 year old.

 

[Bonzi]

Nope, I'm 50, I'd take a pic right now on skype but I look hideous... glasses on hair a mess etc.
I'll do it if you really want me to tho.... (actually, I'm 52)

 

[sealybobo]

Nope, I'm 50, I'd take a pic right now on skype but I look hideous... glasses on hair a mess etc.
I'll do it if you really want me to tho.... (actually, I'm 52)

Yes I want to see.

 

[Bonzi]

if so, what makes you think it's low?
How often do you want to have sex?

Only once a day. Used to be I wanted to have sex 24/7.

all men do
when they are young
I love God but I'm kind of angry with him for making men that way

 

[ChrisL]

I'm just going to hang around for observation purposes.

 

[Bonzi]

honestly, if that's the way men really feel, I'd rather be treated like a piece of meat, no lies or games.
just beat me over the head and rape me
**** that other bullshit

 

[ChrisL]

I'm fine. anyway, just telling it like it is!

But you aren't willing to do anything to change it. Does your hubby take meds for diabetes or high blood pressure or anything? Perhaps he is having issues with erectile dysfunction.