Well first I gotta say cheating is not in a woman's DNA. Now I know this wasn't said as some sort of fact just as in a way of sarcasm..but it could be easily said in the same type of sarcasm that it's in a mans DNA to cheat. I couldn't even begin to tell you all the times I have either read or heard that men get some sort of pass when it comes to cheating and sex in general, because of the type of being they are..it's in their nature to want to "spread their seed". Which makes me laugh quite a bit. I think that every person has needs, and sex is on top of the list with plenty other needs. And we all can say sex is in our nature. But that doesn't give anyone a reason to cheat. If you have committed yourself to anyone in a relationship no matter if marriage is involved or not, you shouldn't stray what so ever. I don't think if it gets boring that you can do other things with other men and women that doesn't include being physical to spice up your boring life you decided to share with another. Maybe spice things up with your partner and talk with them about how you're feeling. But that's between the two of you, and if you feel that the relationship is sucking the life out of you or your partners not doing enough sucking, than get out of it. No matter if it strings you through a horrid divorce..soon that'll be over and you can do what you want when you want. I don't care if it's just a dramatic person you would have to listen to by ending the relationship, it'll be done with. Or even if you say you still love and want to be with them, bullsh*t. You don't do those things to people you love, and that's being extremely selfish. That's all it can possibly come down to is your selfish ways for cheating and not taking a proactive way of changing things that will in the end make things better. No one deserves to be miserable, that goes for the cheated and the cheater, you feel miserable...leave...find what doesn't and what can satisfy you. As for the cheated on partner, they don't deserve the bs that you ultimately are putting them through when they could be with someone else that would cherish that person. I think at the end of the day it's such a simple thing to process and yet people make it all so complicated. Cheating is horrible for both men and women.
