??? where are you getting that he was "not denied food and water"
YES HE WAS, that was the whole controversy.
He was breathing and swallowing on his own.
Now
Penelope if you are saying he wasn't DIGESTING his food,
if his BODY was rejecting it, that's another thing.
But if so, he would still die on his own.
There is no need to "hasten it" by forcing that denial on his parents
who still want to continue their relationship caring for him.
The spiritual process works out on its own, when people
are ready to go, they will do so naturally. Without this
unnatural intrusion by GOVT to force that.
He was not denied food and water, the food and water he took in could not sustain him. His parents were at his side for the 9 days and I'm sure they tried their best to keep him going.
Vincent Lambert Dies 9 Days After Being Stripped of Food and Water
Quadriplegic Man Cries When Told That His Food Supply Will Stop
He responds to certain sounds, can swallow, and is able to breathe on his own without assistance from a machine. His food and water has been administered through a gastric tube.
After several years of trying to improve his condition, Lambert's medical team spoke with his wife in 2013 and recommended that his care should stop.
The court’s decision to eliminate Lambert's food supply cannot be appealed, but his parents are threatening to file a complaint if he is not allowed to eat.
While trying to save their sons life, a wall has been placed between multiple family members. Lambert's wife, six of his siblings and a nephew have long argued that it is more humane to let him die, according to the
BBC.
Lambert's mother, Viviane has been
pleading for her son's life. "He sleeps at night, wakes up during the day, and looks at me when I talk. He only needs to be fed through a special device and his doctor wants to deprive him of this so that he can die, while legal experts have shown that this is not necessary. In May, when learning about his planned death, he cried," she concluded
He was stripped of his food and water via feeding tube. That is what that means. Sounds like a mother who believes what she wants to believe, yet the doctors said irreversible brain damage, for what 11 years.
Yes so why were you saying he WASN'T deprived of food and water?
He was.
When a baby cannot eat without someone helping to spoonfeed,
that's not considered unnatural to help feed someone.
Penelope I do appreciate and AGREE with you and the other family
and what you are saying, because I've been through that and so has
my oldest brother who consulted his Catholic priests on when to
feed or not feed and what is natural or unnatural.
My brother also had the same argument you did which I agree with
when the FAMILY makes that decision together.
But I told him what I'm telling you now:
the GOVERNMENT does not have the right to interfere or force the
family to make such a decision.
Do you understand that makes a DIFFERENCE?
A woman can decide to abort or not abort her baby,
and it may be the right decision. But even with a right
decision the GOVERNMENT should not be dictating it.
It makes a DIFFERENCE if the Govt is involved or if
people make decisions on their own without Govt interjecting.
That's the MAIN and KEY difference or else I would AGREE WITH YOU.
AND my brother who we had to go through this with our dad who was
vegetative from 1985 to 2001 or 16 years. We still agreed to wait until
my FATHER showed signs he was rejecting food and didn't want that in his body.
That's when my brother and the priest and family and everyone AGREED it was time.
Families NEED and DESERVE that time to resolve and make decisions TOGETHER.
Yes, we had fights and conflicts over this, but we had to RESOLVE THOSE OURSELVES --
NOT RELY ON GOVT to force anyone before everyone was freely/naturally agreeing.
I also knew it was time a short time before that when my sister announced she
was going to get married and start a family. The minute she announced that I
felt a CHANGE in the spirit. I knew Dad was going to let go any minute, I FELT IT.
That is a SPIRITUAL process and it isn't for the GOVT to tell any family when
to resolve or have closure. In our case when there are Catholic and Buddhist
family members, we consulted with SPIRITUAL counselors so everyone agreed.
Penelope I had argued for years with the legal guardian and went through all
this. But the ISSUE WAS FAMILY AND SPIRITUAL CLOSURE. It's the process the
FAMILY needs to go through with SPIRITUAL COUNSELING.
If you can understand doctors not forcing a woman to abort her child but
allowing her to miscarry and grieve if that is HER SPIRITUAL PROCESS
BETWEEN HER and the SOUL OF HER CHILD, the same happens when these
parents have to resolve and let go of THEIR relationship with their son which
is THEIR spiritual process. Nobody else can dictate that for them which is
THEIR own spiritual process. And the State Govt has NO PLACE in
ANYONE's spiritual process. That's why the abortion issue is between
women and their doctors and counselors and shouldn't be DICTATED by the state!
I appreciate and agree with the spiritual process of letting go
Penelope.
I went through that with my family.
But we had to go through spiritual counseling, closure and healing.
It was not for the state/govt to DICTATE to any of us.
We had to resolve it ourselves for our dad to let go naturally.