Wow, your utopia sure sounds great for the cult of LGBT. But not so great as a standard for kids in general: the reason marriage was created over 1,000 years ago.
You talking to yourself again? I guess the voices in your head give you lots of practice.
My utopia would be for you to stop advocating harm to the children of gay couples
A marriage does not prevent any child from having his or her biological mother or father in his or her life- even if the mother is artificially inseminated.
This applies whether the mother is gay or straight- and whether or not her legal spouse is a man or a woman.
Once again- preventing a gay couple does not help a single child- it only hurts the children of gay parents.
Example
Sue and Kristi have two children- Bob and Amy- both of them sired by a gay male friend of theirs.
Sue and Kristi don't marry- and Bob and Amy are still Sue and Kristi's children- but with viewer legal protections. Their biological father is- or is not in their life depending on both the mothers and the father.
Preventing Sue and Kristi from marrying does not magically bring a father into Bob and Amy's life. Their children are harmed by not allowing them to marry.
Now lets say Sue and Kristi now marry- now that its legal. Their children suddenly have additional legal protections- which most people would applaud. Once again- this marriage has no effect on whether the biological father is in their lives- he might be- or he might not be.
You know that the only effect to children of preventing gay couples from marrying is harming children- and yet you keep promoting that.
Hence- you deliberately want to harm the children of gay couples.