The same sex marriage issue is doing that.
There's no such thing... .
Ya see scamp,
Marriage IS: the joining of one man and one woman.
A demonstration of the where a single example of the male gender; which is to say the male 'sex', and one single example of the female, a demonstration of the gender distinct from the male; which is the say the 'sex' which is distinct from, but which naturally compliments the male 'sex'.
But your 'feelings' as you have presented them HERE... does a FANTASTIC job of proving the SELF-EVIDENT TRUTH which holds that:
The Advocacy to Normalize Sexual Abnormality: IS DESIGNED AS A MEANS TO
SEPARATE THE CULTURE OF THE UNITED STATES CULTURE
FROM GOD.
Dear
NYcarbineer: You may be able to use "marriage" in civil/secular context and separate that from any religious/church context. But not necessarily so with people who do not make this distinction. Some people's beliefs are that way, that is the way they think. Like how Atheists don't see Life or Nature as God. Not the way their minds work, and some cannot even use that language like "God" without being offended as against their beliefs.
I may not agree with this, but if this is how other people see and believe, the laws should not discriminate against them.
So if we cannot agree, due to religious differences,
then keep the word marriage OUT of the policies, or divide them by party or something people of that state/district agree to.
It may not be a personal or religious issue to us,
but neither is beef or pork to me while it is against the beliefs of Hindus or Muslims.
If a person says that is against their beliefs, they are not required to prove or change this to fit our conveniences.
There is no reason the same accommodations, for both traditional and nontraditional couples,
can't be made through civil unions, contracts and custody agreements in completely secular terms.
Trying to endorse a social institution through the state can arguably be opposed
as outside the role of govt as a political belief. And many libertarian and independent types can argue for that as well.
I think there are ways that people can have their gay marriages recognized legally
without imposing on people of other beliefs.
I will try to devise a proposal through the Texas Democratic Women
and see if we can try a pilot model for resolving both the gay marriage
issue and the ACA mandates by separating these by party. And create
another level of law similar to civil but dealing with Constitutional protections
and ethics, and try to separate jursidiction and funding there.
The public housing and public schools are like pseudo-governmental nonprofits.
And there is an entire network of elected and appointed officials managing those. So why not separate these by party and still maintain the concept of local govt but not imposing on people who believe in private schools, private funding etc and don't want this public stuff on their tab because their religious beliefs are not welcomed there, so why be forced to pay for it if they aren't included. Why not separate, and solve SEVERAL problems at once?