Here's what I'm gonna say about this. And that's all I'm gonna say about it.
I, for one, will never just lay down and let a maud arbitrarily have their way with me just because they think they can and are comfortable that they will not be held to any meaningful accountability. Ever. It's not in my nature.
I'm not talking about regular forum babble. I'm talking about inappropriate, arbitrary, unjustified maud actions. A maud shouldn't be able to get away with that stuff. There needs to be a legitimate means of accountability.
If pointing out truly malfeasant maud actions is considered ''harrassment'' by the given maude who performed an arbitrary, unjustified action when one is directly affected by it, then there's a much bigger issue at play here.
That ''PM a maud'' thing? That is, in my personal view, useless and really only serves to keep any malfeasance under wraps, further encouraging and maintaining the arbitrary behavior. It shields a maud from any expectation of accountability. The rest of the mauds are almost always gonna support the maud's opinion anyway. Assuming they even find out about shenanigans.
So what maningful choice does one really have left but to blow the whistle on that brand of skulduggery in the middle of the Town Square?
There must be a trusted means to police the police. There must be a trusted means of accountability. The current way doesn't work. Which, I suppose, is the downside of the absence of an active owner/administrator.
The stuff about starting threads about them? Yeah, I get all of that.