So when the term "pro-choice" is used, it is a very literal, accurate and deliberate phrase used in respect to the right for a woman to have control over what she does with her body. This is a very complicated issue and there is much to debate, however, don't belittle and mischaracterize the other sides point of view.... Even if you might not agree with it.
But it's not accurate and it's not even literal... it's a lie. The woman had a choice... she chose to have unprotected sexual relations...
Wrong.
Your statement is the lie, and a presumption. What evidence do you have that every woman who is considering an abortion
knowingly, and willingly had unprotected sex? Not had sex, mind you - the evidence of that is the pregnancy - but that it was unprotected,
with her knowledge, and consent? You see, it
is about emotions for you. It's just that it's about the worst kind of emotion - hubris. You self-righteously, and sanctimoniously
decide that any woman who is pregnant is some ignorant skank who was too stupid to keep her legs closed without a condom, or birth control, so she
deserves to have her entire life interrupted with the pain, and indignity of a pregnancy. She
deserves to be forced to give up whatever plans she may have had, in order to spend the next 9 months as a walking, talking incubator.
Maybe, next time, she'll think twice before opening her legs, right? Now, you're going to insist that you didn't say any of that. Except you do, every time you talk about "choosing to have unprotected sex". It's time you moralists understand what everyone hears when you say the things that you say, whether you intend for that to be your meaning, or not. It's why we call, it slut shaming.
These seem to be the only weapons in the arsenal of the anti-choice activists - guilt tripping with "child", and slut shaming with "She chose to open her legs". And they wonder why those of us who are pro-choice remain unconvinced of their arguments some 40 years later.