I understand that. But there have to be some adults around to pull them up short. That honor falls on you, and you seem to have some experience dealing with children. But your sentiment is one that you would never hear from those you have to be mean to.
I often wonder how some of these people would communicate if they walked into an actual person to person forum. They should try it sometime, and see what satisfaction comes from it. Internet fora are wonderful places to act out and do it anonomously.