Paulie,
When someone threatens, via PM, your daughter, using her name I will remember to show you the same sympathy. It freaked me out and my only intentions was to let the guy know that he scared me off, he won and to leave my family alone!
After talking with the mods. Its seems settled and I will see were it goes from there. When someone threatens your child and you don't know who that person is, but you know that person knows everything about you. You feel powerless and insecure! Not a good way to go into your weekend!
Hope that clears things up a little for you.