Cecile1200 said:Sorry, but no. I have said nothing even remotely like that insane bullshit CS is spouting, nor have I put the blame for being raped on the woman. I just refuse to encourage women to be as stupid as CS appears to be, putting their trust for their safety on how things "SHOULD" be, instead of acknowledging and preparing for how things actually ARE. I'm really not interested if you're just so used to people finding ass-kissing ways of speaking in order to be thought "nice". That isn't my schtick.
Concentrating on getting your point across clearly and in a manner that will be listened to rather than insulting, belittling, and being condescending toward the people you're speaking with or about isn't exactly "ass kissy" when you're having a relatively serious discussion. Then again, it explains a lot about how the wrong signals can screw up the clarity of a woman's message in any given situation, doesn't it?