Why White People Don’t Like to Talk About Race

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    USMB is a fine example of this.

    Why White People Don’t Like to Talk About Race
    March 26, 2015 by Barnabas Piper

    Most white people want no part of the conversation about race. We don’t want it with our baristas, our neighbors, our spouses, or anyone really. We don’t quite know what do each February during Black History Month. For most white people that’s Martin Luther King Jr. awareness month with a nod to Harriet Tubman and not much sense of any other aspect of black history or culture. The ongoing tensions surrounding the deaths of Michael Brown, Eric Garner, Tamir Rice, Alton Sterling, Philando Castile, and so many other incidents are more than most of us know what to do with (if we want anything to do with them at all).

    Most of us grew up unaffected by the racial divide, or at least unaware of how it affected us. Now, though, the divide has been brought to us and we’re at a loss. We don’t want that conversation. We’re uncomfortable with it. Our responses tend to fall into two main groups.

    Group 1: Don’t want to talk about race

    This first group contains the bigots and racists. They don’t want to talk about race (or maybe they do for all the wrong reasons) because they want to be the only race. This bunch deserves a whole lot of ink, most of it not very pleasant, and none of it here. They are despicable products of unfortunate upbringings.

    The majority of this group, though, is not outright bigoted. Instead they are outright ignorant and therefore subtly prejudiced. They are unexposed to minority cultures (not just black, but all non-white cultures) and unaware of the complexities, difficulties, and hurts there. Really most of white America is part of, or has been part of, this group. They are the comfortable majority, and thus they determine the status quo. Life is good, so why rock the boat? It’s not that they don’t “care” about the needs of others — you won’t find a more cause-oriented bunch of advocates than young, privileged white people — but those needs never really intersect with their lives at a personal and relational level. And they’re happy to keep it that way because any other way is uncomfortable and intimidating. It’s a passive aggressive approach to racial separation, and one most don’t even realize they’re participating in. Their ignorance is blindness they mistake for bliss.

    Group 2: Don’t know how to talk about race

    Why White People Don't Like to Talk About Race

    Most here are not the blissfully ignorant. You are racists. Blacks here have been called all kinds of racist names and all kinds of overtly racist opinion has been spoken. Blissful ignorance is not why a thread about black names has been created at least 2 times sine I've actively started participating here. The same goes for other things.

    Now watch the racism you will see from people who are going to complain. They never complain when a thread by a white person denigrating blacks is posted. Only when a thread about whites is made do they suddenly become colorblind.
     
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    We have the right to have our own opinion if you don't like it too bad for you.
     
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    And you have the right to be shown that what you believe is a load of racist dog shit. If you don't like it too bad for you.
     
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    Having an opinion is not a dog shit that's what you think. but I don't care, I think what I like
     
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    Hmmm. Let's ask a black person why white people don't want to talk about race. Then let's ask a white person why black people don't want to talk about academic achievement. That's a stupid thing.
     
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    Here's the real reason: It's Boring and Pointless.

    After years of being called WACISTS due to the color of our skin, we white folks just don't believe you Race Baiting Hate Mongers.
     
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    Most of us are very defensive, because we know america has always been a lie. And we cannot bear to look at that.
     
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    No darling, you were never called racist because of your skin tone. You should figure out why you're triggered by the topic.
     
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    Odd, I see whites endlessly expounding upon what the black community should do about everything.
     
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    My question is why can’t IM2 stop talking about race?
     
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