Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by JW Frogen, Jun 5, 2011.
It is a hell of a shit feeling.
I think I would have rather have shattered my own.
Maybe I have?
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What did you do, cheat on her? If you "done her wrong" then you deserve that "shit feeling".
But if you no longer love her and wanted to break it off, that's ok. Better to do it now than after 20 years of marriage.
Get rid of everything that reminds you of her and move on.
Probably part of why I really have very little interest in the concept of Romantic Love. Too much of a chance of somebody getting hurt. Sometimes I really think that I'd be more than happy to settle for a nice business-like relationship where there really isn't a lot of emotional attachment instead of an emotionally based relationship. Doesn't seem I'm likely to find either given my past.
Hope you feel better soon.
When you have shattered a woman's heart, you have shown her you are not the man she thought you were, and you will lose her respect and perhaps more. I would much rather be hurt, than hurt another. I can control whether I get "over it", as I know I could not get over betraying a loved one's trust.
I hope things work out for you and for the woman that trusted you.
Guess my thoughts on it, is at least you are being honest. If you didn't really love her, it has to be so, she needed to know, and you are doing her a favor in the long run. My guess is that you'll learn from it, she'll learn from it. Doesn't mean it doesn't hurt huge. Learning from our mistakes and getting pruned kicks us really hard, but is good for us too.
Whatever it is, you're old enough to have known better.
Awesome tune. Though it can apply for some women too, haha. Could call it, Desperado-ess
How can you be so sure of that, Sherry? In another month and a half I turn Thirty-Seven and I can honestly say that I have NEVER experienced Romantic Love. I've never felt it for another person and I can honestly say that nobody that I've ever met or dated has ever felt it for me. So age shouldn't really be expected to be a factor in this. Experience, yes. Age, no.
Frogen is a wise dude and a romantic one....he's also human. He fucked up and I doubt he's the sort to try and make excuses.
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