What do you think what is the biggest issue that I get rejected by girls or dont have a girlfriend?

[Mortimer]

If you had self-respect you would find ways to take better care of yourself instead of just making excuses. If you had confidence and weren't desperate you would not be seeking dating advice from people on an internet forum.

I just ask for feedback... for some opinions of other people, because it is interesting how other people see that.... Im someone who is curious and asks many questions, you noticed that, but you dont need to read something between the lines that im "desperate" for example or something which was not stated for example, which you draw the conclusion but was not stated, you have to take it just as any other question....

 

[initforme]

The job aspect really doesn't matter.

 

[braalian]

The job aspect really doesn't matter.

It does if you’re looking for a steady girlfriend.

Casual hookups, not so much.

 

[luiza]

So you say im exceptionally "ugly" or what is "my case" in your opinion?

Ugly ? Sort of .
But not exceptionally so . At P&G there was a guy who was exceptionally unpreposessing .
His score rate with women was amazing . He was clean, funny , concerned with the welfare of others and interesting .
Women are relatively uninterested in looks -- not all, but probably most

 

[odanny]

The job aspect really doesn't matter.

Yes it does. Being "retired" without ever working is a red flag.

 

[initforme]

Yes it does. Being "retired" without ever working is a red flag.

Says you. I worked hard for 40 years. Now that I look back on it I gave up the most productive years of my life. I am sorry I contributed to this ratrace
I'd take it back if I could

 

[braalian]

Says you. I worked hard for 40 years. Now that I look back on it I gave up the most productive years of my life. I am sorry I contributed to this ratrace
I'd take it back if I could

How would you have lived without working?

And not all careers are a “rat race”. Police, nurses, doctors, teachers, etc.

 

[Mortimer]

Yes it does. Being "retired" without ever working is a red flag.

Maybe it is a "red flag" for many women, I agree it is, many told me that, but Im not employable and handicapped and couldnt work. I guess that is another factor which is intertwined having disabilities etc. Women will ask why he doesnt work and then they hear he has disabilites and shizophrenia etc. and other things, and they will be thrown off.

 

[braalian]

Maybe it is a "red flag" for many women, I agree it is, many told me that, but Im not employable and handicapped and couldnt work. I guess that is another factor which is intertwined having disabilities etc. Women will ask why he doesnt work and then they hear he has disabilites and shizophrenia etc. and other things, and they will be thrown off.

I’m gonna call BS on this.

I’ve seen cataclysmicly mentally retarded people do just fine working at places like Burger King. They’re often the most competent employee in the place to be honest.

I’ve also seen people with severe physical handicaps- as in wheelchair bound- work as greeters at Meijer.

You’re weird, but your posts make it clear you’re capable of operating a computer and typing coherent sentences. And all your videos/pics of yourself make it clear you’re at least ambulatory.

Nothing stopping you from pushing a broom, data entry, running a cash register, etc.

 

[Mortimer]

I’m gonna call BS on this.

I’ve seen cataclysmicly mentally retarded people do just fine working at places like Burger King. They’re often the most competent employee in the place to be honest.

I’ve also seen people with severe physical handicaps- as in wheelchair bound- work as greeters at Meijer.

You’re weird, but your posts make it clear you’re capable of operating a computer and typing coherent sentences. And all your videos/pics of yourself make it clear you’re at least ambulatory.

Nothing stopping you from pushing a broom, data entry, running a cash register, etc.

Those are niche jobs, and you need first to find one, not everyone employs physically or mentally handicapped people in niche jobs etc. And even if i worked as a "retard" at burger king my chances with women wouldnt be much higher would they? As mentally ill at burger king? Disabilites are a red flag sometimes even if someone works somewhere, right? I like being able to do what i want, at what time i want, and can sleep/rest when i need it, and less stress causes me to be more healthy, with severe stress i could get mentally unstable again just like if i dont take my meds. Maybe you would respect me more if i worked at burger king?

 

[braalian]

Those are niche jobs, and you need first to find one, not everyone employs physically or mentally handicapped people in niche jobs etc. And even if i worked as a "retard" at burger king my chances with women wouldnt be much higher would they? As mentally ill at burger king? Disabilites are a red flag sometimes even if someone works somewhere, right? I like being able to do what i want, at what time i want, and can sleep/rest when i need it, and less stress causes me to be more healthy, with severe stress i could get mentally unstable again just like if i dont take my meds. Maybe you would respect me more if i worked at burger king?

Yes, but my point was that you’re *not* retarded or physically handicapped. Yet people who are still manage to find a job.

You’re just weird and fat. Those are not insurmountable obstacles to getting a job or to getting a girlfriend.

 

[Mortimer]

Yes, but my point was that you’re *not* retarded or physically handicapped.

You’re just weird and fat. Those are not insurmountable obstacles to getting a job or to getting a girlfriend.

I have shizophrenia google that, Im not retarded but seriously mentally ill.

 

[Mortimer]

Yes, but my point was that you’re *not* retarded or physically handicapped. Yet people who are still manage to find a job.

You’re just weird and fat. Those are not insurmountable obstacles to getting a job or to getting a girlfriend.

Another thing if i were not handicapped they wouldnt have revoked/exterminated my drivers license, right? this is another handicapp that im not able to drive a car, it is indeed a handicapp if you live where i live on the rural side where you need a car, in a big city maybe with public transport it would be much less of a problem.

 

[braalian]

I have shizophrenia google that, Im not retarded but seriously mentally ill.

Get on meds- if you aren’t already- and work with a social worker who can help you find a job that is manageable with your condition.

I’m not trying to be glib. And I’m not saying it’s that easy. But it’s not impossible and having at least a part time job will probably help you with social skills and self confidence.

 

[Mortimer]

Get on meds- if you aren’t already- and work with a social worker who can help you find a job that is manageable with your condition.

I’m not trying to be glib. And I’m not saying it’s that easy. But it’s not impossible and having a t Lear a part time job will probably help you with social skills and self confidence.

I did over years part time jobs, yes, i do consider it again. But a part time job doesnt solve the financial situation, you still need the other money you get. But it helps with going out, doing something, socialising (at work) and confidence etc. Thats right, and I was over years employed in part time in a supermarket. I still didnt had a girlfriend though.

 

[braalian]

I did over years part time jobs, yes, i do consider it again. But a part time job doesnt solve the financial situation, you still need the other money you get. But it helps with going out, doing something, socialising (at work) and confidence etc. Thats right, and I was over years employed in part time in a supermarket. I still didnt had a girlfriend though.

Not having a girlfriend isn’t the end of the world. Obsessing over it certainly won’t help.

You don’t have to do it all overnight. Work on getting- and keeping- a PT job. I’d say that should be your first step. Even if it isn’t a very physical job, simply getting off the couch and moving might help you lose weight. Having something to do will put you’re head in a better place. Sitting at home and stewing in your own thoughts can’t be good for schizophrenia.

Even relatively superficial interactions with customers/coworkers will help with your social skills.

Even if you never get a girlfriend- and some people just don’t- you’ll be better off than you are now.

 

[miketx]

You don't have a job, do you? I can tell by your low self esteem.

Mort might enjoy dating you. You have vaseline?

 

[Leo123]

I did over years part time jobs, yes, i do consider it again. But a part time job doesnt solve the financial situation, you still need the other money you get. But it helps with going out, doing something, socialising (at work) and confidence etc. Thats right, and I was over years employed in part time in a supermarket. I still didnt had a girlfriend though.

Find yersef an ugly, old, fat rich bitch. At least you'll have a warm place to put it and money.