Underhill
Active Member
So when does life begin? I seriously doubt you bypassed those first days/weeks. I certainly didn't. Those first days/weeks were just as critical and important to the person you are today as were the last three months of your mother's pregnanacy or all the years you have lived since.
So, what is your point? I'm not arguing when life begins. Of course it does.
I'm saying it is not murder early on. That bunch of cells is a potential human, but so is a unused sperm and egg.
There was a time in America that an honorable man who got a girlfriend pregnant fully expected to marry that woman and take full responsibility for the child. That was the cultural expectation of responsible adults. The only time that wasn't true is if he paid a prostitute or maybe a one-night-stand with somebody he picked up on a business trip. Sure that no doubt resulted in some loveless marriages, but given that the divorce rate then was far less than now, it often worked out too.
And it often meant a lot of miserable marriages. The divorce rate was lower, not because people were happier, but because divorce was right up there on the list of cardinal sins.
Respectable men were taught to respect women and not treat them as just a warm place to put it. And women were culturally expected to respect themselves and it was okay, even the smart thing to do, to say no to a horny boyfriend. Sleeping around or 'putting out' as it was called back then could make a girl very popular. All the guys wanted to date her, but they didn't view her as marriage material. They looked for the girl to marry that they could respect and who respected herself.
Right. I think your view of America never existed anywhere on TV. Yes kids were taught those things. But men often would beat their wives and the wives had no options. Children were molested and it was shoved under the carpet.
It was a society that pretended everything was okay and ignored the deep problems under the surface.
That was pre Roe v Wade.
Yes it was.
You can find anecdotal evidence for any argument. You can look at the anomalies and use that to make almost any case. If you take the tiny number of cases of rape and incest pregnancies out of the equation, medical science has now advanced to the point that we know when the mother's life is in danger from her pregnancy. We know when the fetus is so badly damaged that he or she has no chance for any quality of life. I don't think anybody with common sense would judge any woman who would end a pregnancy under such circumstances and of course it should be safe and legal for her to do so.
Except that it isn't in some red states right now.
But in the much broader big picture, the abortion of 54+ million babies has not been good for the country or us as a people. We need to return to a culture that values life, that values the children, and appreciates the value of the traditional marriage and home as the best situation we can give the kids.
I understand. And it is a lovely picture you paint.
But I think we need a culture that looks at reality and deals with the real issues people face. There are things I don't like about our current culture. But I would much rather have an open and honest society where people express their real wants and needs rather than hide them.
And there are dozens of ways our current culture is so much better than the stepford wives world of the 50's.
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