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The Science Of Spanking What Happens To Spanked Kids When They Grow Up
This is well worth a good long look.
Nothing good comes from hitting children.
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A full grown adult beating a small child is abuse.
The use of CP is a substitute for being a good parent in my opinion.
Reasoning with children as well as other legitimate non-CP works far better.
Yes, there are parents who are clueless and don't know any better but that is just all the more reason why this is something that should be taught in schools.
And it is complete and utter nonsense that you can beat values and a work ethic into a child.
The only thing any child ever learned from being beaten was that bigger means stronger and therefore has the "right" to inflict pain on the smaller and weaker person.
A full grown adult beating a small child is abuse.
The use of CP is a substitute for being a good parent in my opinion.
Reasoning with children as well as other legitimate non-CP works far better.
Yes, there are parents who are clueless and don't know any better but that is just all the more reason why this is something that should be taught in schools.
And it is complete and utter nonsense that you can beat values and a work ethic into a child.
The only thing any child ever learned from being beaten was that bigger means stronger and therefore has the "right" to inflict pain on the smaller and weaker person.
Beating is child abuse.
Spanking is not.
Kids with good behavior
More than likely was spanked sparingly and disciplined when they were 1 1/2 up to 3 years of age and parents who act responsibly
Kid that have never been spanked nor disciplined and more than likely learned this bad behavior from the parents themselves, by not acting responsibly around the kids.
Kids learn and mimic behavior that they see around them at home.
A full grown adult beating a small child is abuse.
The use of CP is a substitute for being a good parent in my opinion.
Reasoning with children as well as other legitimate non-CP works far better.
Yes, there are parents who are clueless and don't know any better but that is just all the more reason why this is something that should be taught in schools.
And it is complete and utter nonsense that you can beat values and a work ethic into a child.
The only thing any child ever learned from being beaten was that bigger means stronger and therefore has the "right" to inflict pain on the smaller and weaker person.
Beating is child abuse.
Spanking is not.
From the child's POV there is no difference between the two.
Kids with good behavior
More than likely was spanked sparingly and disciplined when they were 1 1/2 up to 3 years of age and parents who act responsibly
Kid that have never been spanked nor disciplined and more than likely learned this bad behavior from the parents themselves, by not acting responsibly around the kids.
Kids learn and mimic behavior that they see around them at home.
If you are correct then the kids who were doing the bullying learned and mimiced that from their parents who beat them.
A full grown adult beating a small child is abuse.
The use of CP is a substitute for being a good parent in my opinion.
Reasoning with children as well as other legitimate non-CP works far better.
Yes, there are parents who are clueless and don't know any better but that is just all the more reason why this is something that should be taught in schools.
And it is complete and utter nonsense that you can beat values and a work ethic into a child.
The only thing any child ever learned from being beaten was that bigger means stronger and therefore has the "right" to inflict pain on the smaller and weaker person.
Beating is child abuse.
Spanking is not.
From the child's POV there is no difference between the two.
Kids with good behavior
More than likely was spanked sparingly and disciplined when they were 1 1/2 up to 3 years of age and parents who act responsibly
Kid that have never been spanked nor disciplined and more than likely learned this bad behavior from the parents themselves, by not acting responsibly around the kids.
Kids learn and mimic behavior that they see around them at home.
If you are correct then the kids who were doing the bullying learned and mimiced that from their parents who beat them.
A full grown adult beating a small child is abuse.
The use of CP is a substitute for being a good parent in my opinion.
Reasoning with children as well as other legitimate non-CP works far better.
Yes, there are parents who are clueless and don't know any better but that is just all the more reason why this is something that should be taught in schools.
And it is complete and utter nonsense that you can beat values and a work ethic into a child.
The only thing any child ever learned from being beaten was that bigger means stronger and therefore has the "right" to inflict pain on the smaller and weaker person.
Beating is child abuse.
Spanking is not.
From the child's POV there is no difference between the two.
If done correctly they know by the time they are 3 or 4.
Kids with good behavior
More than likely was spanked sparingly and disciplined when they were 1 1/2 up to 3 years of age and parents who act responsibly
Kid that have never been spanked nor disciplined and more than likely learned this bad behavior from the parents themselves, by not acting responsibly around the kids.
Kids learn and mimic behavior that they see around them at home.
If you are correct then the kids who were doing the bullying learned and mimiced that from their parents who beat them.
Beating yes maybe, but more than likely they saw one or the other parent doing it . If a father bullies the wife or wife bullies the husband or they bully their friends and or neighbors.
A full grown adult beating a small child is abuse.
The use of CP is a substitute for being a good parent in my opinion.
Reasoning with children as well as other legitimate non-CP works far better.
Yes, there are parents who are clueless and don't know any better but that is just all the more reason why this is something that should be taught in schools.
And it is complete and utter nonsense that you can beat values and a work ethic into a child.
The only thing any child ever learned from being beaten was that bigger means stronger and therefore has the "right" to inflict pain on the smaller and weaker person.
Beating is child abuse.
Spanking is not.
From the child's POV there is no difference between the two.
I disagree completely. I have only ever had to swat my daughter one time, and that was after she had run into a street without looking. She was two and a half and had run into the street after I told her to look first. She wasn't paying attention to me as I was explaining why what she had done was dangerous. I swatted her on the bottom one time to get her attention.
That was enough. We have never had to resort to a swat ever since. Now she KNOWS when we are speaking to her it is important she pay attention. She is the best student in her class by far, and as a third grader is reading at a twelfth grade level. I absolutely hated swatting her, but I also knew that it was the only thing that would get her attention, and it was vitally important she learn that lesson immediately.
Kids with good behavior
More than likely was spanked sparingly and disciplined when they were 1 1/2 up to 3 years of age and parents who act responsibly
Kid that have never been spanked nor disciplined and more than likely learned this bad behavior from the parents themselves, by not acting responsibly around the kids.
Kids learn and mimic behavior that they see around them at home.
If you are correct then the kids who were doing the bullying learned and mimiced that from their parents who beat them.
"Modeling" is indeed the dominant way that kids learn. Unfortunately they can model from TV shows, and if parents aren't careful with what their little ones watch, that is how they get bad habits and behaviors.
A full grown adult beating a small child is abuse.
The use of CP is a substitute for being a good parent in my opinion.
Reasoning with children as well as other legitimate non-CP works far better.
Yes, there are parents who are clueless and don't know any better but that is just all the more reason why this is something that should be taught in schools.
And it is complete and utter nonsense that you can beat values and a work ethic into a child.
The only thing any child ever learned from being beaten was that bigger means stronger and therefore has the "right" to inflict pain on the smaller and weaker person.
Beating is child abuse.
Spanking is not.
From the child's POV there is no difference between the two.
If done correctly they know by the time they are 3 or 4.
Beating under the age of 4 is like beating a pet. They have absolutely no idea why they are being hurt.
Kids with good behavior
More than likely was spanked sparingly and disciplined when they were 1 1/2 up to 3 years of age and parents who act responsibly
Kid that have never been spanked nor disciplined and more than likely learned this bad behavior from the parents themselves, by not acting responsibly around the kids.
Kids learn and mimic behavior that they see around them at home.
If you are correct then the kids who were doing the bullying learned and mimiced that from their parents who beat them.
"Modeling" is indeed the dominant way that kids learn. Unfortunately they can model from TV shows, and if parents aren't careful with what their little ones watch, that is how they get bad habits and behaviors.
The meme that TV makes children violent has been debunked over and over again. You probably saw the war scenes from Vietnam growing up as did millions of other children and it had no impact on your behavior whatsoever.