tough stuff about what you expect. Not one woman in 10 in the US can afford to properly raise a kid. It costs 1/2 million $ to do so. Public schooling is welfare. Private schooling is 20k a year. A kid aint raised until he's able to raise kids of his own, and by then, that will mean he has to be able to cough up a million $ for the raising of HIS kid, because of inflation. That means you have to give them a master's degree.