Anathema
Crotchety Olde Man
The child should regard its parent as a source of nourishment and loving comfort. So long as that positive condition is in place an occasional scolding or spanking will not detract from it.
That wouldn't have worked for my parents, with me. Corporal punishment was the only thing that worked with me. They tried other things but none worked. Especially as I got into double digit ages. There was nothing to take away from me and no social life for me to forfeit.