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No one does that. I think you confuse that with treating them the same as anyone else.There are a number of them where I live, a college town.
I tend to avoid using any pronouns around them.
In my opinion, and keep in mind, I live in an area with a considerably higher percentage of them, they are a bit on the self righteous side. They are use to people climbing over each other to be over friendly with them to assure their membership in the woke club.
I treat them exactly the same as normal wait staff. Friendly enough, smile etc. but I do not, in any way, acknowledge their presence as something special like I see so many do.
The result of that virtually always results in them acting distant. Because I don't revere them, pay homage to them, they probably think I am transphobic.
Leftist around here treat them like how people long ago treated priests.