The Gadfly
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- Feb 7, 2011
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HG brought up "team tagging" aka "pulling a chain". I expressed that in my experience women who "pull a chain" have drugs or alcohol on board, when they do so. If the woman is drunk or stoned, the consent is questionable.
Again... two separate situation. We were not discussing women who tag team or pull chain in any situation other then consensual.
Your throwing in that comment...turned a consensual situation into one that was not.
I'm going to talk about this whether you like it or not.
Never mind. I'm dropping it altogether. Discuss whatever you like.
Look, Sky, I don't think anyone here wants to trivialize the subject of date rape. While it's not something most men do (or would even want to do), it is unfortunately too common. While I will never claim to understand women, I do like them enough not to want to hurt one, physically or emotionally.
As for the woman with multiple men thing, think of it this way: multi-orgasmic woman or one with a very short refractory period, or a woman who simply needs a long time in active intercourse to achieve orgasm from penetration, two (or more) men. In that situation, a woman may very well get off on "pulling a chain" without being the least bit intoxicated (or high). I don't know that this is especially common, but in my admittedly long life, I have known a few women who were into that. As for the sort of "gang-rape' you describe (and yes, I know it happens), it is quite beyond me why any man of normal sensibilities would care to have any kind of sex with any woman intoxicated to the degree you describe. I have had the experience of trying to make love to a drunken female (courtesy of an ex-wife of mine who sometimes could not hold her liquor) and frankly, it was a poor excuse for sex. So much for the use of alcohol as an "aphrodisiac", which rarely if ever turns out well. I prefer my female partner fully conscious and awake, so that we can both enjoy the experience.