Oregon Shooter: Mental Health Issues -- Gun Laws -- Parenting Family Relationships

Procrustes Stretched

And you say, "Oh my God, am I here all alone?"
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http://www.nytimes.com/2015/10/03/us/chris-harper-mercer-umpqua-community-college-shooting.html?_r=0

Another mom who went shooting with her son who had mental issues. They didn't have to move to Oregon for looser gun laws. Evidently they went shooting with guns in tough gun law state California

ROSEBURG, Ore. — Christopher Harper-Mercer was withdrawn and quiet as he grew up in southern California, spending most of his time indoors at his mother’s apartment and deflecting neighbors when they asked him how he was doing, or why he always wore the same outfit of combat boots and green Army pants. But there was one subject that got him to open up: guns.

Mr. Harper-Mercer collected handguns and rifles, and he regularly went to a shooting range with his mother, said neighbors in Torrance, Calif., where the two lived until moving to Oregon in 2013...
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Just this week, on Tuesday, using the handle lithium_love, he commented on a post titled “How many girlfriends have you had?” by saying “0. Never had anyone.” When pressed further...
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He was listed as a 2009 graduate of the Switzer Learning Center in Torrance, a private school for students with learning disabilities, emotional issues and other special-education needs. Officials from the school declined to comment on Friday. Mr. Harper-Mercer joined the Army for a month in 2008 but was discharged before finishing basic training.

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In a post published in September, after the shooting death of Darren Goforth, a suburban Houston police officer, at a gas station, the user with Mr. Harper-Mercer’s email address said it was the inevitable result of the Black Lives Matter movement. “In case anyone’s wondering, I’m not on the side of the suspect, I’m on the side of the officer, and generally don’t agree with the black lives matter protests,” the user said.

The user, who posted under the name lithium_love, shared pornography, as well as movies like “Illuminati Secrets” and “UFO Secrets of the Third Reich.”

Bryan Clay, 18, a neighbor from Torrance, said he once asked Mr. Harper-Mercer why he wore “a military get-up” every day.

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Derrick McClendon, 42, another former neighbor, said Mr. Harper-Mercer was so timid and ill at ease that on occasion Mr. McClendon would ask him if something was wrong.

“I would say, ‘Hey, man, you all right?’ ” Mr. McClendon said. “He would say, ‘Hi,’ but that’s it. He was really shy.”

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One night, the Flores family, the next-door neighbors, were watching a movie when Mr. Harper-Mercer knocked on the door.

“He said: ‘Can you turn that down? Your TV is really loud,” Esther Flores said. “And he just had that look. No smile, nothing. And he just turned and walked away. My husband didn’t even have a chance to respond.”

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Bronte Hart, a neighbor who said she lived in an apartment below Mr. Harper-Mercer’s, described a more assertive young man than his former neighbors in California did. Far from avoiding social interaction, she said, he frequently shouted at her for smoking on her balcony.

“He yelled at us, me and my husband,” said Ms. Hart, who lives with her husband and father. “He was not a friendly type of guy. He did not want anything to do with anyone.”

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http://www.nytimes.com/2015/10/03/us/chris-harper-mercer-umpqua-community-college-shooting.html
 
I wonder where his dad was and why he didn't participate in his son's life.
divorced.

sonny boy lied with mommy

I wonder why the dad was not involved with his son. I wonder if the dad knew how unhealthy his son was and how the mother was overprotective and somewhat sick and unhealthy as her son? If he did know he should have sought custody instead of ignoring an unhealthy co -dependant relationship like that with a mentally ill son.
 
I wonder where his dad was and why he didn't participate in his son's life.
divorced.

sonny boy lied with mommy

I wonder why the dad was not involved with his son. I wonder if the dad knew how unhealthy his son was and how the mother was overprotective and somewhat sick and unhealthy as her son? If he did know he should have sought custody instead of ignoring an unhealthy co -dependant relationship like that with a mentally ill son.

the boy lived with his mommy
 
I wonder where his dad was and why he didn't participate in his son's life.
divorced.

sonny boy lied with mommy

I wonder why the dad was not involved with his son. I wonder if the dad knew how unhealthy his son was and how the mother was overprotective and somewhat sick and unhealthy as her son? If he did know he should have sought custody instead of ignoring an unhealthy co -dependant relationship like that with a mentally ill son.

the boy lived with his mommy

Right and the mom had issues too, so why didn't the dad intervene?
 
I wonder where his dad was and why he didn't participate in his son's life.
divorced.

sonny boy lied with mommy

I wonder why the dad was not involved with his son. I wonder if the dad knew how unhealthy his son was and how the mother was overprotective and somewhat sick and unhealthy as her son? If he did know he should have sought custody instead of ignoring an unhealthy co -dependant relationship like that with a mentally ill son.

the boy lived with his mommy

Right and the mom had issues too, so why didn't the dad intervene?

How? In the real world there is nothing the dad could legally do.
 
Prototypical Great Society Family: Fatherless male head of household, lawless children, defeated mother
 
I wonder where his dad was and why he didn't participate in his son's life.
divorced.

sonny boy lied with mommy

I wonder why the dad was not involved with his son. I wonder if the dad knew how unhealthy his son was and how the mother was overprotective and somewhat sick and unhealthy as her son? If he did know he should have sought custody instead of ignoring an unhealthy co -dependant relationship like that with a mentally ill son.

the boy lived with his mommy

Right and the mom had issues too, so why didn't the dad intervene?

How? In the real world there is nothing the dad could legally do.

How do you know that? If the son's mentally ill and the moms a nutter letting him shoot guns, he could have fought to stop that in court or take custody away.
 
divorced.

sonny boy lied with mommy

I wonder why the dad was not involved with his son. I wonder if the dad knew how unhealthy his son was and how the mother was overprotective and somewhat sick and unhealthy as her son? If he did know he should have sought custody instead of ignoring an unhealthy co -dependant relationship like that with a mentally ill son.

the boy lived with his mommy

Right and the mom had issues too, so why didn't the dad intervene?

How? In the real world there is nothing the dad could legally do.

How do you know that? If the son's mentally ill and the moms a nutter letting him shoot guns, he could have fought to stop that in court or take custody away.
sometimes I believe you live in a very closeted wordl
 
I wonder why the dad was not involved with his son. I wonder if the dad knew how unhealthy his son was and how the mother was overprotective and somewhat sick and unhealthy as her son? If he did know he should have sought custody instead of ignoring an unhealthy co -dependant relationship like that with a mentally ill son.

the boy lived with his mommy

Right and the mom had issues too, so why didn't the dad intervene?

How? In the real world there is nothing the dad could legally do.

How do you know that? If the son's mentally ill and the moms a nutter letting him shoot guns, he could have fought to stop that in court or take custody away.
sometimes I believe you live in a very closeted wordl

His mother came from an upper class family, his dad was never in the picture, they never married. I am very surprised that Shoot speeders isn't outraged at this dead beat dad a white man who knocked up a rich black girl and then abandoned his paternal obligation to his child. ;)
 

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