ABikerSailor
Diamond Member
Me? I don't have morals, because morals are values placed on the individual by whatever society or religion they happen to belong to.
Personally...................I don't think that a lot of people who claim to be "moral" are, because a lot of them think it's okay to screw over others, as well as ignore those who are less fortunate.
I have values and ethics that I hold dear, and I will follow them until the day I no longer walk this planet.
If you are being celibate because your religion or your peer group tells you that is what makes a person "moral" or "good", make sure you feel the same way about it yourself, not because of the dogma others have pawned off on you.
Me? I like sex, and have ever since my 1st time at 17 yrs old. Do I feel guilty about it? Nope, because those who I choose to engage in that activity with are single and free to do as they choose. Would I go after someone I know is married? Not a chance, because my values and ethics say I'm not supposed to take something that isn't mine.
If you find someone you feel close to and decide that you like them enough to have sex with them? Tell them honestly that you're a virgin, and then go for it guilt free, because what you do with another person is between you, that person and God, or whatever you consider your Higher Power.
Personally...................I don't think that a lot of people who claim to be "moral" are, because a lot of them think it's okay to screw over others, as well as ignore those who are less fortunate.
I have values and ethics that I hold dear, and I will follow them until the day I no longer walk this planet.
If you are being celibate because your religion or your peer group tells you that is what makes a person "moral" or "good", make sure you feel the same way about it yourself, not because of the dogma others have pawned off on you.
Me? I like sex, and have ever since my 1st time at 17 yrs old. Do I feel guilty about it? Nope, because those who I choose to engage in that activity with are single and free to do as they choose. Would I go after someone I know is married? Not a chance, because my values and ethics say I'm not supposed to take something that isn't mine.
If you find someone you feel close to and decide that you like them enough to have sex with them? Tell them honestly that you're a virgin, and then go for it guilt free, because what you do with another person is between you, that person and God, or whatever you consider your Higher Power.