rightwinger
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I don't believe in ultimatums but think couples should be open and honest about what they want from a relationship. If one partner wants eventual marriage and family while the other is only interested in a loose relationship with no long term strings it is time to move on.
You don't say "If we are not married in a year, I am leaving" But after a year, you have a discussion on where the relationship is going. If you are not happy with the answer....Move on
You don't say "If we are not married in a year, I am leaving" But after a year, you have a discussion on where the relationship is going. If you are not happy with the answer....Move on