So why are you so freakin' crazy over it? Why do you right-wingers want to pry your way into other people's intimate lives? You have just said that you have got your due. So why? I am "white," I am heterosexual, I am female. But I would never think to use any off these aspects of my identity as an excuse to attack the dignity of another human being. As we used to say, who died and made you God?