CDZ Feminism promotes prostitution?

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    So I've said this before. My observation in the US is that women treat their husbands like crap. I can't count the number of jobs I've had were women co-works routinely vomit how terrible of awful their husbands are.

    Alternatively, I had a co-work at my current job I'll call Tim, and his wife Jessica. Jessica is from Napal (not her real name obviously). And you can clearly see the difference. She loves him. I mean really. He's love her, you can tell. I was shocked to find that Tim was in his mid 50s, and she was in her mid 40s. Ironically Tim was married before, which is exactly why he got a wife from Napal.

    Now don't get me wrong, I am not suggesting they slobber all over each other like these idiotic college students. But you can see that even after being married 20 years, they still have something. Its one of the very few times where I saw a version of marriage that actually looks like something a man would want.

    But what do we see in western 1st world countries? Women that don't do any of that. They don't want to give their husbands sex. Or time. Or affection. Sometimes not intimacy of any kind.

    I happen to be listening to some podcasts, when one host mentioned in passing this article, and I was curious. So I looked it up.

    Escorts are urging wives and girlfriends to listen to their men

    One woman, who goes under the pseudonym Mrs Robinson, told news.com.au she feels like a “marriage counsellor” and that Australian women are failing to understand the needs of their partners as more and more men are driven to online apps to find intimacy.

    “I do see a lot of married men and they’re not getting that intimacy at home, at all,” Mrs Robinson told news.com.au.

    “Men are looking to be understood and be heard. They’re looking for that bit of love that they’re obviously missing. I could open up a school to teach women how to be intimate because there are so many out there that are not giving intimacy to their husbands.”

    The 58-year-old woman said that 90 per cent of her clients, ranging in age from 20-45, pay $350 for half an hour to engage in a heightened degree of emotional intimacy.

    In some cases, they engage in reciprocal sexual pleasure (girlfriend experiences), but in other cases, they won’t have sex at all (companionship experiences).

    “There’s definitely more demand for it. I can’t tell you the number of times a client and I haven’t had sex. We may have just sit there and talk, we may have dinner. There’s so many times that you will not have sex. Sometimes there will be a run of it when I think ... ‘wow’.

    “It’s not this wild, crazy, hang-from-the-chandeliers porn star experience they want. They just want to be with a girlfriend for an hour. Cuddling, being together, talking, having that intimacy with somebody. I’ve got clients in their 20s who want that. It’s pretty amazing. I’m still in shock over how many young guys are into me. It’s bizarre.”​

    Now I don't know about you, but the vast majority of women, you bloom in your 20s, you reach your prime by the age of 30, and from there... over time, the flower fades. This is normal. Right?

    Here's a lady almost 60.... and men from 20 to age 45, are coming to her. Some for sex, and many.... just to be held. Just to have someone talk to them. Just to have a companion.

    To me this is both fascinating, and expected at the same time. Fascinating because here a women, is telling other women, the whole reason their husbands are unfaithful, isn't because they are bad men, but rather they are bad women. They are being terrible wives.

    I was reading an article, supposedly from a Prostitute, who wrote the title "Things I learned about your husband".

    One of them was, "He'd rather be with you, but you don't take care of him. So I do". Men cheating on their wives, because their wives don't want to be the lover, and intimate they need. The prostitute doesn't criticize and critique everything he says. She simply supports him and listens to him.

    That's why some of these guys are not even getting sex. You women are not doing this for your husbands.

    And you starve them out, and then get all angry and bitter, when he cheats, or goes to see an escort? Really?

    I posted that thread months ago about mail order brides, and the women here started foaming at the mouth. Now I get why. Those women are giving their husbands what American girls don't, and they end up with happy marriages and American girls end up on Jerry Springer, and Doctor Phil.

    What's funny is at the bottom of a different article, a man wrote that everything on there was exactly true. He didn't like going to see the prostitute, but his wife simply didn't want to pay attention to him. Every time he wanted a alone time, she had a headache, or backache, or something ache, or was tired, or busy, or blaw blaw blaw. Finally he figured out it was too hard to be intimate with her, so he goes to an "adult escort" twice a week. He openly says, he'd rather be with his wife. But she doesn't want to be a wife.

    I can't help but think about how Christians deal with this, because obviously I'm a Christian (as the sig makes clear). Christians today really suck at teaching this. But the fact is we used to get this.... The puritans used to teach that if a women refuses to provide for her husbands needs, and he cheats... he was not to be punished, but rather the woman was at fault.

    No don't get me wrong. If she did provide for him, then it was his fault. A man could be beaten, flogged, or put in stocks if he cheated on his wife. But if the women caused it by starving him out, then no, it's her fault.

    This is why marriages fall apart today. Yeah I know there is the occasional abuse, or drug / gambling or other addiction. But the majority I would be willing to bet... is this.

    My conclusion to this, I think this is caused by Feminism. I think women today are more interested in their careers, and their own pursuits, and have gotten into their head that they should be able to have it all, and they should not have to do anything to keep their husbands. I've even heard women say "I shouldn't have to...." (insert whatever he needs). And they go to work, and barf all over their co-workers what terrible husbands they have. While they themselves do nothing... put in zero effort to meet their husbands needs.

    The Nepalese wife at work last week said... "I am starting to see why men in American don't want to get married".

    SO.... any opinions you'd like to add? Clean debate zone. (friendly reminder). :D
     
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    I agree.

    Feminism promotes the destruction of the two parent family and leaves women with little choice at the end of the day....

    Women were better off when they had a husband that cared about them and would stay with them for life....This family unit was a good thing for women.

    Prostitution is the act of having sex just to stay above water.
     
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    A woman who is tired, has a headache, has a backache, etc, doesn't sound like someone who can fulfill a man's needs. It sounds like her own cry for help.

    Could it be a signal for the man to ask what he can do to help?
     
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    SO.....what I hear you saying is that a woman who gets PAID $350 for a half hour and does not have to take care of the kids, do his laundry, cook his food, listen to him snore or deal with his farting in bed has managed to figure out the secret to intimacy is 24/7 on demand sex. Is that right?
     
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    If your want a submissive 50%+ of the population wives "taking care of" their husbands is fine. Sounds like an ISIS dream.

    I prefer to think of myself as at least equal and that I am in no greater need than anyone else of being taken care of.
     
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    When you say getting paid, I think cost of a wife is millions of dollars over a life time. $350 is nothing. A wife gets my life, my home, my entire wage, my retirement, my investments, my everything. If a wife only cost $350, there would not be a single guy on the face of the Earth.

    Anyway....
    First off, I'm just reading what other women have written, and commenting on it.

    Second, as I said before, these women from other countries seem to be able to meet their husbands need, and do so without complaining.

    Are they all superheroines? Or is it a matter of priorities and making time?

    Third, again for thousands of years, women have been able to do this.

    The one difference between then and now, I would argue is that women because of the feminist movement, all want their own careers and high demand, high stress jobs.

    So I gasp that after you spend all day at the office and you are exhausted, then you come home and still have to do all the chores in the home, then you have nothing left for your husband... yeah I get that.

    Whose fault is that?

    As these ladies in the article said... many of these men are paying them, not even to have sex, but just to have someone to talk to. The biggest need a man wants from a women outside of sex, is simply to have her believe in him, and support him. When he doesn't get that from home, he goes to someone else.

    Now getting that intimate need met, naturally leads to close-ness and ultimately sex. That's why most affairs are started not for sexual needs, but for intimacy reasons. It's not because his office assistant had big breasts, or walked around in lingerie at the office.

    It's because when he said "I was thinking about doing (x)" she said "Oh really? Tell me about that. That sounds like a great idea".

    You know, I can't help but think of my sister. She's got this. When she needs alone time with her husband, she just kicks the kids out. Literally, you all go outside and play. "I don't wanna" Too bad, out. She simply makes time. By the way, she has 6 kids.
     
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    No. Equality does not destroy anything except the idiotic idea that white males are somehow better than others.

    Equality creates choices and opportunities.

    What you and the OP want is subservience and obedience. IOW, the opposite of "feminism".
     
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    Well again, the Puritans would beat, flog, and put in stocks, any man that beat his wife, the way the ISIS, and other Islamic fundamentalist groups promote.

    I don't see any connection between the two.

    There's actually a story from puritan New Jersey, where a man abused his wife, and when the town discovered it, all the women of the town, over a 100 of them, surrounded the house, dragged the guy out, had a mass beating on him, at the end tossed him into the river. By the way, the men of the town didn't do anything but follow the group around, to make sure this man didn't fight back. They just made sure he didn't hit one of their wives.

    I don't see that happening under Islamic State, or any other Islamic group.

    Now when you refer to yourself... I don't know, or need to know, what situation you are in. If your wife is meeting your needs, that's fine.

    The point of this article by these adult escorts is that most women are not meeting their husbands needs. The whole reason their husbands are willing to spend $350 a night, with an old women almost 60, is because they can't get those needs met at home.

    If you are not in that group, then obviously this doesn't apply to you. And by the way, fantastic. I wish everyone had a great marriage.

    However it is clear, not everyone has a great marriage, and the numbers are falling. Is that a safe assessment?

    My goal is to determine why, and I think this article is a clue.
     
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    I girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do.

    Prostitution is ancient.

    Herodotus talks about ancient Greek girls prostituting until marriage to build up a dowery for themselves. That was back in 425 BC.

    ... 24 Centuries ago.
     
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    Most men after a long day at the office, are exhausted when they get home. There are many days that I get home, and I'm simply beat.

    And honestly, most people in general spend more than 30 minutes watching TV. So here's a thought.... give up your TV show, and spend that time with your husband, or your wife. Again, the article that I posted, these adult escorts, these men are spending just 30 minutes to an hour a week with them. That's enough to meet the needs these men have.

    You are telling me, that all these wives can't possibly find 30 minutes to one hour... A WEEK.... to spend with their husbands?

    I find that difficult to buy. Can you explain that?
     
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