- Jun 19, 2009
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But see you could choose.
OK let me do this for you.
A man. A giant of a man reduced to 65 pounds. That was my father. 215 pounds of a truck driver Danny Boone wanting to live.
Never wanting to die. At what point do you say he has no right to live any more? Does anyone have the right to choose if he lives?
But I'll tell you honestly if my father had asked me to take him out I would have. These are horrible questions we face.
Blessedly God took him before I was faced with this question and this answer.
I'm sorry for your loss Tinydancer...I'm certain he loved you deeply as well.
I was his princess before before Disney Inc. made it a staple for your daughter. Not bad for a truck driving hockey playing old man.
He showed me all four corners of the net. He horrified my mother when he he said it was me singing "three blind mice" at a Toronto vs Chicago game.
Don't ask about the eggs in Buffalo cheering for the Leafs.
Dads make a difference.
When I put up those lyrics that daddy me put me on his knees and that he told me I could be anything I wanted to be.............
It's the damn truth.
Oh and he was not happy with Alice Cooper driving me home. Or hitchhiking to Boston. Or walking out that door one night saying I'll call you from California with a teddy, a small suitcase and five dollars in my hand.
But he loved me thru thick and thin. I was a handful.
I was desperate at his end of days. I was carrying him to the washroom before we figured it out that it would be easier if I made a bed pan out of a laundry detergent container.
I learned a lot of lessons with my dad's death in the new world where this sweetest young lady apparently till I came back up from Tennessee was trying to keep down his cholesterol level.
She was just in shock when I had to inform her my dad's toast. It's party time.
I'm bringing in he Timmy's and the Molson's. Girl really couldn't get it that the last thing my dad needed was to watch his weight. Good girl though. Just didn't understand.
Thanks for the insight Tinydancer.. I'd love to sit down at the kitchen table, share a coffee (or whatever) and discuss memories, life and perspectives with You. It would be the best of times..