date on tuesday

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    Ok so where should i bring her and should i buy a flower or two for her? there going to be one or stem roses.


    I was thinking movie dinner. A lot of other people saying both.

    she 20 i am 22 years old.
     
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    Overkill
     
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    i agree with duckie...no flowers...too early
     
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    Make sure she pays her own way, you want to set the ground rules fast before she expects you to pay for everything.







    Just kidding, but no flowers on the first date.
     
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    Be yourself, and do what you feel she would like, after all we don't know her at all, you do
     
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    Well yea i don't know her to much so i had my friend come with me to look at some flowers. I know to be myself, some reason i think i might be more heading to a dinner than movie i think it just better.

    but we will see.
     
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    how can having 1 or 2 flowers be to early?
     
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    A daisy would be nice. Keep it simple. Unless she is shallow :eusa_angel:
     
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    Way too early for flowers... As somebody already mentioned, overkill. You don't want to come off as "sappy" or "hard up for a date". I would keep the date fairly simple. Go someplace for dinner where you can have a nice long chat and get to know each other a bit. Maybe dinner and a movie but not much more than that. No over doing it. Keep it all nice but simple. The very most important thing is to be yourself. Don't try to be somebody or something you think she's interested in. Be yourself. Be polite and respectful. I know this sounds like very "old" and "dated" advice but by all means open doors for her, i.e., car doors, doors to the dinner, etc. If at the end of the night the chemistry is there, ask her for another date. If not, thank her gracefully for her time and tell her you had a great time. You might turn out to be something other than what's she's looking for but if you were nice to her all evening she may have a friend that might be a good match and she would for sure tell that friend of hers or she might later reconsider and want to have another look. First dates aren't always the greatest but they are the most important.
     
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    your not explaing the flowers thing at all. you are saying its to early. how is that over kill how is that doing something to snappy.

    i just need a better defection to understand where you coming from.
     

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