QL is what walking sticks would call "fat". Which also means she is not beautiful, right? Wrong. Oh. Wait. You are talking about 500 lb people. Wait a sec. Is there a limit to what "fat" is? Just so everyone knows whether they are a fat ugly person due to their weight, perhaps some of you should give us your ....ahem...rules...about what is fat and ugly to you so we can jot it down in Things We All Must Know book.
It happens to men to, I am thinking of how people fat shamed Elvis, and also when Marlon Brando had gained weight they wanted him to walk around carrying mangos and displaying his belly in apocalypse now. Media tells us what is physically attractive and we are conditioned by it.
I came across this blog and liked what she had to say:
The thing is? How I feel about myself isn't actually all that matters. It also matters that how I feel about myself is worthy of comment by virtue of an entire culture built around the exhortation and expectation that I should hate myself.
I don't need gold stars and infantilizing cheers for my radical rejection of a cultural imperative that tells me and everyone else to hate my body. I need people with privilege to be as angry about the fact they're asked to hate my body as I am.
I need people with privilege to stop giving me permission to accept myself, and start giving themselves permission to accept me
Shakesville
Also anyone who speaks out against fat shaming, must automatically be fat, (another sly dig trick used by fat shamers)