ChrisL
Diamond Member
Both of my cats want to be right by me. Baby likes to sit on my keyboard and Spidey at my feet. He and I seemed to bond the moment we met. I brought him home in my arms because I knew he would be scared .... and I knew better to do that with a full-grown cat I didn't know ... but he snuggled right into my arms and rode with me fine for the 45 minute car trip. I just wish they got along.
This picture is about the closest they can get without the hissing. Baby has a bed on my desk. Luckily it's a big desk.
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They are both so cute. All of ours are rather aloof with me. Cali and Freaky will jump up on my husband's lap while he is watching TV. Dolly is the only one that will cuddle next to me, but doesn't like being held. Bootsie is still rather shy and we've had her almost 10 months, now.
Neither of mine are lap cats and don't want me to pick them up. Baby wants to nuzzle my hands as I type. She wants pets. That's all. I pick them up anyway. When Spidey got used to all of us he didn't snuggle up to me and rarely does it now. It is good he did that that one day. But they both have to stay close to me (competition?). And they both talk to me a lot. Spidey has his big Siamese voice normally when calling out to me or when talking to the outdoor cats. But when he responds to me he uses a baby voice (I wonder if he's mocking me since I use a baby voice when talking to him).
I think that most cats don't really like being picked up and held. Some of them tolerate it though. They are just too independent. They like to cuddle but on their terms. Lol!