Cecilie1200
Diamond Member
I attended church for many years. I finally dropped out, and feel at peace. I wasn't a better Christian when I went. Some of the best people I know don't attend church.
Many good, even holy, people don't 'believe' in God. Many church goers just go through the motions, for one reason or another.
"Better Christian" and "better person" aren't necessarily the same thing. They should certainly go hand-in-hand, but they aren't synonymous. Also, if you truly weren't a better Christian, then it was because you weren't putting anything into the experience. Church and Christianity are like anything else: you have to invest something in order to get a return.