Without being too funny about this, I might start praying for the outcome I DON'T want.
oh, don't do that shocked canadian! Spend the time to figure out, what it is, that God is trying to tell you, teach you or teach others, or do... Remember, He's the Alpha and the Omega, the beginning and the end, omnipresence.... his big picture, may not seem to coincide with our own desires...
here's an example:
Matt's father died of cancer, we were not married yet, just engaged... it took 8 months for him to dwindle to nothing and die... I had walked away from my faith for about 5 years previous to this... not that I had stopped believing in God, but just stopped practicing my belief and put it in some compartment in a corner of my brain and hadn't thought about it...but during this extremely sad period, I prayed and prayed and prayed for God to save him, a miracle...
He didn't answer my prayers with the outcome that I wanted, but He SAVED me and Matt both, from being on the road to destruction... we were young, party animals so to say, drinking till we couldn't stand drunks on weekends and driving while in this condition.... we could have killed people, we could have killed ourselves...
Instead, Matt had bought me a Student Bible, and he brought out his own, and we began refreshing ourselves with the Word of God again, beginning with reading the 4 Gospels, while praying for his dad... who was 5 years younger than I am now, when he died... he died young, so young....to make a long story short, we were born again... given a second chance... not the Holy Roller 'born again'... but born again, none the less... our lives changed forever, and for the good...
So, although it was very very very sad, that our prayers to save Matt's dad seemed unanswered, God used this sadness, to save us...