The answers to the two title questions are for most folks overlapped, but I suspect they aren't entirely the same.
Where I live and why:
- Where: Washington, D.C. -- downtown
- Why:
- Because I like cities where I can walk to much of what I want to do and where, when I don't walk, it rarely takes more than ten minutes to get where I want to go.
- Because D.C. is, to my eyes, a beautiful city (the parts people live in as well as the federal part of the city) with an abundance of trees and parks.
- I grew up in D.C. and insofar as nothing has militated that I move elsewhere, I just haven't.
- It's reasonably close to both the shore and the mountains.
- D.C. is fairly well insulated from natural disasters.
- D.C. has good public transportation and decent access to the rest of the world via air travel.
- D.C. is one of the nation's intellectual hubs.
- D.C. is a small city.
- D.C. is diverse -- there are people of (nearly?) all races, creeds, nationalities, and lifestyles in D.C.
- The weather is temperate.
- The variety of dining options is awesome.
- There're decent performing arts.
Why I don't live elsewhere:
- Mostly because living in D.C. isn't, for me, "broken," so there's no point in my trying to "fix" it by moving elsewhere.
- The type of work I undertook to pursue as a career has no physical location constraints.
Where else do I think I could live happily?
- In the U.S.
- Chicago
- Austin, TX
- Denver, CO -- provided I didn't think Yellowstone would erupt during my lifetime
- Columbus, OH
- Philly
- Minneapolis-St. Paul
- Nashville
- Any number of "old word" style cities -- downtown is a nice place and one can walk to "everything" -- on the East Coast Piedmont plateau or Mountain Northwest (well north and/or west of Yellowstone) that is far enough from the ocean not to have to worry about hurricane storm surge and having a topography that is varied enough to keep tornados to a minimum and that doesn't generally have earthquakes.
- Outside the U.S.
- Any major European city -- capital cities are my preference -- that doesn't need a wall of some sort to keep out the ocean and that isn't prone to quakes and volcanic eruptions. I would love to live in Amsterdam, but there's no way I would live in A-dam. Paris would be my first choice.
If there's any central theme to why I live where I do and don't live where I don't, it's that I have no desire to live in places where nature's unforeseen "drama" can "reach out and touch" me and my family in our home.
Well, I was born in Southeastern Iowa, but dad moved us to the San Francisco Bay area in 1970 and I lived in a number of ‘cities’ in the bay area until 1981 when I entered the Air Force. I was stationed in Sacramento after boot camp and tech training (that was in Denver, CO). I met My wife in an online chat room/RPG and in 1998 I moved to Newburgh, NY where she lived. She started her family later than I did and while My two sons were grown, she had children aged 5 up to 9 at that time. So it was easier for Me to move east than it was for her to come to California. A good choice too. I love everything about the state of California, but it has been rendered unlivable by the politics that happen there. When her father became ill in 2000, we moved to northeast Pennsylvania where I reside today.
I’ve lived in Arizona, Nevada, Iowa, Pennsylvania, and New York.
I really don’t like living here, but there are some serious advantages.
- · The crime rate is practically none existent. There have been two murders in the past 25 years.
- · There hasn’t been a burglary in 50 years or more.
- · Everyone looks after each other and very few people bother to even lock their doors.
- · The hardware store will leave their product on pallets on the sidewalk after closing hours.
- · The downtown area (if you can call it that) is a 5-minute walk from My front door.
There are some down sides too.
- · There is no real dining. What does exist is family style Italian (pizza, calzones, things like that) and one Chinese restaurant.
- · Entertainment is a forty minute drive away.
- · It’s a half hour to the nearest golf course and that course sucks.There is no real industry. My job is over an hour away. I put 520 miles a week on My car for work.
There are more downsides as well as upsides. It would take to long to list all of them.
Where would I like to live?
I loved California. But as I said, the politics and people have rendered it unlivable.
It's hard to say. I’ve lived in a number of places so I don’t fear moving or strange places. I’m a web developer by training and really, the best web jobs are in Pittsburgh or Philly in this state. Neither place appeals to Me.
I would like to either go to the far northeast (Maine) but really hate the cold; or south to some place like Virginia or North or South Carolina. I’d like to get to a climate that isn’t too hot in the summer (wife can’t do heat) but has little to no snow (Did I mention I hate the cold?). I was reading in another thread that the Shenandoah Valley is a nice place to live. I’d give that some serious thought but would need to see how the economy is there.