This is what I like about Xenforo. If you want to reach out that option is there and then some. I liked getting a little note when I received rep, I'm not going to lie, but with the system now it's a bit more personal/meaningful when someone reaches out. Instead of "I so agree with this statement!" rep comment, I'll get "I really agree with what you wrote in that thread about foreign aid. Too many people.........etc etc etc". It's as if when someone reaches out they really have something to say. I have to be honest, since the switch I've gotten to know people A LOT better because our conversations are on a much more intimate level (if that makes sense) I've learned that most members persona out on the forums is not in any way indicative of who they really are. There are a lot of awesome people here, thats all I can say