"did" drugs..as in past tense. You have never tried ANY drug in your teen years? Pot? Nothing?
Yes, criminals used poor judgement at one time in their lives. So have I. You have never made a bad choice in your life?
Good thing I have taught my daughter about forgiveness and acceptance. Hopefully the next generations are willing to help others..if not, what a sad world we will live in.
I have NEVER tried ANY drug in my lifetime.
Helping people does not mean enabling them to make continued bad choices. Not hiring a druggie, is an object lesson in what happens to people who use drugs.
Forgiveness does not mean the wrongdoing never happened and we should never, under any circumstances "accept" bad behavior.
I have had a particularly bad early life. We were homeless most of the time and that was long before there was a safety net. Now that I look back on our difficulties, I can see very clearly on how it was made worse by every well meaning person who "helped" us. Had they just not helped, but let my parents wallow, we would have been better off.
The only person that did any good, was the one who didn't accept my parents but went to the police, testified in court and helped the authorities take me away. Yes. I do hold it against those who helped, everyone that gave us shelter, everyone that gave us food, everyone that opened their door to us was equally at fault. Their helping allowed and encouraged the misery to last for many years.
If you want to help someone, pick a junkyard dog. You will get better results.