We stepped on the slippery slope.
Yea, the slippery slope to hysteria and inanity....
Polygamy is an anachronism. It does not make sense to even be talking about it. Where in western culture , aside from an occasional religious cult is it found? To oppose polygamy while supporting same sex marriage is not a double standard, it is not hypocrisy because they are very different animals. Same sex marriage is about an equal relationship between two consenting adults. Polygamy is a form of male domination over multiple females who do not themselves have the option of having multiple spouses. Often, the females are younger than the male and emotionally vulnerable and the arrangement is inherently unequal and sexist. That is not acceptable. Opposition is indeed morally defensible
The same is true of anything involving children or anyone else who is not legally or emotionally able to consent to sex or marriage. I don’t think that I need to say more on that. You cannot compare it to a relationship between, or among mature and mentally fit adult. I also feel that a charge of hypocrisy for opposing incest-particularly between a parent and an offspring- is inappropriate. Aside from the issue of genetic defects is offspring of people closely related, this too often involves coercion and exploitation, and at the very least will upend the concept of family well beyond the effects of same sex marriage.
I won’t even get into the more bizarre issues that have been brought up. There are those who have said that if we allow same sex relations, why not also with a corps. There are those who have said that they should be allowed to marry their gun or their dog. Serious or not, it’s all an attempt to undermine the discussion of marriage equality and homosexuality.
Now group marriages, among consenting adults, on an equal basis is another story. I would agree that one cannot legitimately oppose such an arrangement while defending same sex one on one marriage. However, I also maintain that it should not be part of the same conversation as same sex marriage.
The question of other alternatives to traditional marriage is an interesting one but irrelevant to the current discussion of marriage equality for gays. This question obfuscates the real issue of marriage equality and stokes fears of what might come next, when gay couples want nothing more than to have the same rights as hetero couples. I submit to you that these discussions of other alternative sexual lifestyles is a logical fallacy, an argumentative slight of hand know as
Tu quoque /tuːˈkwoʊkwiː/ (Latin for "you, too" or "you, also") or the appeal to hypocrisy, is a logical fallacy that
attempts to discredit the opponent's position by asserting the opponent's failure to act consistently in accordance with that position; it attempts to show that a criticism or objection applies equally to the person making it. This dismisses someone's point of view based on criticism of the person's inconsistency and not the position presented whereas a person's inconsistency should not discredit the position. It is also a false analogy between two or more objects, ideas, or situations which is another favorite trick of people trying to win an argument when there argument is inherently weak. If the two things that are being compared aren’t really alike in the relevant respects, the analogy is a weak one.
When, and if the issues of further changing the definition of marriage comes up, it will be an entirely different discussion. Why? Because it won’t just concern gays but rather everyone who engages in or wishes to engage in marriage, not to mention society as a whole. It will not simply be a matter of one group-gays-wanting what another group has. It will be a group-plural marriage advocates- wanting what no one else has and therefor much more difficult to claim discrimination.
If anyone thinks that marriage equality as it is currently being discussed will upset the applecart of society think what that would do. AGAIN, it is not now an issue. Those using as an issue are engaging in scare tactics ….the old slippery slope argument- another argumentative transgression-and it’s bogus. Even if you can make the argument that to redefine marriage will embolden others to further alter it down the road, you can not penalize people who want something now, because of what it may lead to later.