I understand the emotional desire to respond like you and Trump propose. If I had a loved one killed by a terrorist i'd want EVERYBODY involved in their cause gone... However, as a world leader we need to look at the big picture and the "cause/effects" of our actions. Trumps logic is Terrorist do not care about their life but they care about their families lives so if we kill their families they will think twice before attacking us. If you agree with this then that is your call... I don't agree and feel that this is a very short sighted solution. Killing family's will only poor fuel on the fire and help Isis and other group recruit, justify and rally anger and support for their cause.
I have no problem with taking the women involved with these attacks or other attacks.......They need to pay a price for their involvement...........
In regards to if we hit them they will hate us.................they already do and breed this hate from birth over there.............They have been doing this since Mohammed............their culture will not change....
History has shown that the only way to end it..................Is well................get brutal and win the dang fight..............they are spreading and need to be gone.
Again, short sighted ideas IMO... You are not going to go exterminate every person who believes in Jihad, yes they breed hate but the more we poke the fire the larger it's going to get. For this war to truly end, we need to cut off their resources, funding, training, weapons etc. and go after their leaders and points of power. Culturally, we need to find a way to coexist without feelings of oppression and hate. Muslim leaders need to speak up and extinguish the extremist ideas. Poor people need to find opportunity so they can focus on productive aspects of life and not join the Jihad to take their bitter rage out on the west. There is a lot of work to do and there is no easy solution. I just hope we get leaders that take the smart effective path.