You come off like a fucking idiot.
The 'n' word has, historically, been used as demeaning to blacks. I can understand that. Hence I do not use the word.
'Tar baby' is not racist. The 'racist' element has been created by those seeking to manipulate stupid people. I am not a stupid person so it's not that easy to manipulate me.
Oh, and BTW, I'm still waiting for some explanation of how the fuck it is racist in the context it was used in.
Faux outrage and pretend racism is sickening.... and, worse, it is dangerous. It mocks those who suffer from real, actual racism, and makes it far harder to spot real racism. Personally, I find that quite annoying. You may as well just come out and claim that everyone who disagrees with Obama is a racist.
If my explanations are idiotic, it's only because I'm responding to your arguments in kind.
You claimed, "now, let's look at where the term 'tar baby' originated". I responded by trying to inform you that the "N" WORD has the same non-racist origins. However, since then, both word have been hijacked by racist, who have attached racist connotations to their usage. As a result, anyone who uses EITHER TERMS are viewed a racist. Words and phrases have a history, termed etymology. I really don't know any other way to explain it to you. I will only tell you that in the black community "tar baby" is right up there having the same offensiveness as the "N" word.
YOU DON'T GET TO DECIDE WHAT'S OFFENSIVE TO BLACKS.
THAT'S YOU'RE FUCKING PROBLEM.
YOU THINK IN TERMS OF A WHITE PRIVILEGES MENTALITY THAT STILL THINKS YOU GET TO TELL BLACKS WHAT THEY FIND OFFENSIVE, IN A COMMUNITY, YOU DON'T BELONG TO.
DON'T LECTURE ME ABOUT WHAT'S DANGEROUS. I'M BLACK. I KNOW WHAT IS CONSIDERED OFFENSIVE IN THE THAT COMMUNITY, BECAUSE I BELONG TO IT.
GET A FUCKING CLUE.
MY GOD, WHAT'S YOUR PROBLEM?