Psychology of people that go to "Gentlemans" Clubs

[rightwinger]

Men would like to see every woman's boobs before they die

Going to a strip club just allows you to scratch more off your bucket list

 

[martybegan]

Is is a psychological / personality thing?
Or just an indicator of lack of something at home?

What is the allure of going to a strip joint?

Are we talking about anyone who sets foot in one of these places, or the habitual attenders?

My attendance is usually limited to bachelor parties, and while i do feel a bit skeevy in the place, it does have tits, so it has that going for it.

 

[Bonzi]

Is is a psychological / personality thing?
Or just an indicator of lack of something at home?

What is the allure of going to a strip joint?

When I was young, well the naked women, and the fact after their shift it was easy to get laid... As for men that are married, well that one I can not explain...

I figure more are married. And dissatisfied, but too lazy to leave....
If you are unhappy in a marriage, other than kids or a guarantee that your spouse will kill you, there is no reason to stay in the marriage (no good reason) - not even money.

 

[Bonzi]

Is is a psychological / personality thing?
Or just an indicator of lack of something at home?

What is the allure of going to a strip joint?

Are we talking about anyone who sets foot in one of these places, or the habitual attenders?

My attendance is usually limited to bachelor parties, and while i do feel a bit skeevy in the place, it does have tits, so it has that going for it.

Well it's one thing just to do it for "funsies" - I think some of it is the naughtiness factor too.
More "exciting" makes people feel alive to do something sorta "taboo"

 

[martybegan]

Is is a psychological / personality thing?
Or just an indicator of lack of something at home?

What is the allure of going to a strip joint?

Are we talking about anyone who sets foot in one of these places, or the habitual attenders?

My attendance is usually limited to bachelor parties, and while i do feel a bit skeevy in the place, it does have tits, so it has that going for it.

Well it's one thing just to do it for "funsies" - I think some of it is the naughtiness factor too.
More "exciting" makes people feel alive to do something sorta "taboo"

The way I see a strip club is its the equivalent of a bakery where you see this awesome cake, you pay for the awesome cake, they wave a piece of this awesome cake in your face, and you can't eat the awesome cake. At some places, you MAYBE get to lick the frosting, but that's it.

 

[Bonzi]

 

[saveliberty]

Seems to be psychology and philosophy with strip clubs. Who knew?

 

[Bonzi]

there is psychology and philosophy in everything....

most people just find it boring and unproductive to think about....

 

[Moonglow]

Is is a psychological / personality thing?
Or just an indicator of lack of something at home?

What is the allure of going to a strip joint?

Wanting to play Sugar Daddy to a single Mother...

 

[Moonglow]

there is psychology and philosophy in everything....

most people just find it boring and unproductive to think about....

It's a penis control of the mind thingy....

 

[Moonglow]

I guess that would depend on the club you go to.
I mean, you can see young, tight bodies on the internet.
Is it that much different in person? Wouldn't a lap dance just be a frustration?

You can't smell them on the net...

 

[Moonglow]

Is is a psychological / personality thing?
Or just an indicator of lack of something at home?

What is the allure of going to a strip joint?

When I was young, well the naked women, and the fact after their shift it was easy to get laid... As for men that are married, well that one I can not explain...

I figure more are married. And dissatisfied, but too lazy to leave....
If you are unhappy in a marriage, other than kids or a guarantee that your spouse will kill you, there is no reason to stay in the marriage (no good reason) - not even money.

To hell you say....

 

[GiveMeATicketToWork]

Is is a psychological / personality thing?
Or just an indicator of lack of something at home?

What is the allure of going to a strip joint?

I tried one once as a single man. Wasn't all that hot...just lap-dancing and a private booth if the person would like to do more as the dancer dances.

If a man just wants sex, then adult cinema or photographs, or self-serve booths with live entertainers are fitting I think.

 

[Bonzi]

I think it's more of a social club.
Unless you go to the VIP room and whack off

 

[GiveMeATicketToWork]

I think it's more of a social club.
Unless you go to the VIP room and whack off

No, anyone with money can get the h*ll in...

 

[ZackB]

Is is a psychological / personality thing?
Or just an indicator of lack of something at home?

What is the allure of going to a strip joint?

I tried one once as a single man. Wasn't all that hot...just lap-dancing and a private booth if the person would like to do more as the dancer dances.

If a man just wants sex, then adult cinema or photographs, or self-serve booths with live entertainers are fitting I think.

You did not go to the right one.

 

[Bonzi]

Maybe someone can give a list of good strip joints and where they are

 

[GiveMeATicketToWork]

Is is a psychological / personality thing?
Or just an indicator of lack of something at home?

What is the allure of going to a strip joint?

I tried one once as a single man. Wasn't all that hot...just lap-dancing and a private booth if the person would like to do more as the dancer dances.

If a man just wants sex, then adult cinema or photographs, or self-serve booths with live entertainers are fitting I think.

You did not go to the right one.

I went to one place and had sex a few times with some of the girls there. It wasn't like a typical strip place (drinks, a stage, etc.) It was just private booths.

 

[Bonzi]

Is is a psychological / personality thing?
Or just an indicator of lack of something at home?

What is the allure of going to a strip joint?

I tried one once as a single man. Wasn't all that hot...just lap-dancing and a private booth if the person would like to do more as the dancer dances.

If a man just wants sex, then adult cinema or photographs, or self-serve booths with live entertainers are fitting I think.

You did not go to the right one.

I went to one place and had sex a few times with some of the girls there. It wasn't like a typical strip place (drinks, a stage, etc.) It was just private booths.

Is it less enjoyable knowing they do that with other guys. Like you are one of many, or is it all just about the physical pleasure?
I guess if I had a feeling they might actually enjoy it (instead of going through the motions) maybe it would be ok......

 

[GiveMeATicketToWork]

Is is a psychological / personality thing?
Or just an indicator of lack of something at home?

What is the allure of going to a strip joint?

I tried one once as a single man. Wasn't all that hot...just lap-dancing and a private booth if the person would like to do more as the dancer dances.

If a man just wants sex, then adult cinema or photographs, or self-serve booths with live entertainers are fitting I think.

You did not go to the right one.

I went to one place and had sex a few times with some of the girls there. It wasn't like a typical strip place (drinks, a stage, etc.) It was just private booths.

Is it less enjoyable knowing they do that with other guys. Like you are one of many, or is it all just about the physical pleasure?
I guess if I had a feeling they might actually enjoy it (instead of going through the motions) maybe it would be ok......

That might be a way that men and women are different...for me it was just about receiving services that I paid to receive. They just happened to be sexual services.