so since your an expert, tell us oh wise one,
how to cure all the ailments
I thought you white people already knew from Buchanan who evidently grew up in the hood next door to me?

Who do you think knows better Buchanan or any black person who grew up in the environment and overcame it?
Look dewd, a lot of us have had it tough at some point. My wife's Mother died when she was three. Meningitis epidemic of the late 50's. Her Father died when she was 17. Heart attack from too much stress trying to work, raise kids, pay bills, etc.
I came back from Viet Nam and you wanna know about prejudice?
I can tell you some stories about prejudice. About how I had to lie about my whereabouts for the prior five years to get a shitty job, about how when people eventually did find out about me being a combat veteran and how they treated me, about never getting that promotion because..... Veterans, especially combat veterans are.. You know -- Dangerous & shit.
The difference being that strangers can't tell me from Adam. You carry your burden with you 24/7/365. You can't pretend not to be Black.
And why would you want to?
I understand a little bit about prejudice. I know what it's like to come up hard.
I remember carrying Concrete Blocks up ladders for the Masons and mixing 'mud' by hand.
I remember my Wife and I living on pork n' beans and Cottage Cheese for a week because we were too broke to buy hamburger.
I don't pretend to understand what you went through but I know this, Black people have been treated better than Veterans for the last 50 years (VEVRA was a bad joke) so don't cry to me about 'prejudice' because I know what it's all about myself.
And you know what else? The best revenge is living good.
I win!!
Sounds to me like you did, too.