This dumb ***** is always finding fault with everything I do and never tells me what I am doing right. Can she for once tell me what I am doing right? Then she has her mood swings every other day which is ******* annoying
See this is why women can't be a boss because want to be BOSSY
I'm trying not to snap
That is one of the greatest managerial flaws, pointing out mistakes but never complimenting good deeds. Compound that with a woman not really suited to such a role and who feels a need to over-compensate for being a woman, and you have a bad mixture. Add to that the hormonal variations that women tend to go through just compounds the matter. A GOOD manager runs a department with a
Dominating nature, you know they know what they want and who is in charge and they know how to get it from others. But it sounds like this woman runs her department with a
Domineering nature, such a person doesn't know what they really want or how to get it, and think they can command by simply leaning on people all of the time.
This is a person who has been likely promoted to her own level of incompetence. I think the best thing you can do is try not to allow polarity to develop between the two of you; be receptive, cooperative, patient, even appreciative and supportive no matter how it hurts until she backs down and no longer feels threatened (her lack of really knowing what she wants and how to get it scares her), and if you can, at the right time and in the right way,
if you have to, someday simply ask her in a non-confrontational way: "Gee, don't I ever do anything right? Maybe if you tell me the right things I do, I will have a better idea of what you want!"