So not only did she take her own life, but she also lied to her family about what her plans were as if the suicide itself wasn't bad enough. In other words, why add whipped cream to a poison pie that her family didn't ask for in the first place? If she were a member of my family, I wouldn't cry too hard if at all. People that heartless do not deserve to be mourned for.
God bless you and those who loved her always!!!
Holly
P.S. Yeah, I know that what I say here may sound vile, but it's no worse compared to what her final choice of action was. If she is going to bake a cake that no one else in her family was going to have any desire to feast on, why can't people like me add the appropriate frosting to complete the picture since the person will obviously not be around to frost the desert themself?