In instances where the man wants to keep the baby I think it's tragic that he has no choice.
What do you think about the men who gladly give money for the abortion and move on.
Do you think they should equally be shamed in the way you shame women?
the tragic situation results SOLELY form the idiocy of the situation "it is my body and my choice".
And you have to deal with all the consequences of such legally carved situation.
You want a man to not just give money and hop into another bed - you have to give him the possibility of CHOICE in DECISION making.
they do not have it NOW.
And therefore they are nothing to be ashamed for.
Shrieking vaginas with vocal cords are solely responsible for this situation.
BTW, there are plenty of young couples which do not follow this pattern - but is the woman who makes it happen - she is not shutting all the doors for the man by "her body and her choice" and they are making the choice - together. In the vast majority of cases to have a baby. Which should be the way it goes - there is no reason in the most affluent country under the sun with the most generous social network help and without any stigma attached to out-of the -wedlock birth not to have a baby.