Cheated on......

[Bonzi]

have you ever been cheated on?
what did you do?
has it happened more than once?

 

[mdk]

Yes, only once. When I found out I ended the relationship that day.

 

[Bonzi]

Twice for me.

The 1st time, I acted like a lunatic, stalker etc. Eventually got over it and moved out (only to jump in bed with a married man….) – then had a kid out of wedlock. Not my most shining moment!
2nd time the guy confessed to it. I think he did it mostly to hurt me, cause he never did it again.
That’s all that I KNOW about anyway……

 

[aaronleland]

Yes, only once. When I found out I ended the relationship that day.

All I did was receive a handjob, and you were holding the camera. Stop calling it cheating.

 

[Cassy Mo]

Not by my husband, either while dating or after marriage.

Guys who I dated, no way of being sure, but it's possible.

 

[Alex.]

Yes oh yes...and I will never forgive or forget. Evokes nothing but hate inside me


I was about 8 years old and I was playing Monopoly with my older brother and he was the banker and well do I have to go on?...... that bastard.

 

[Bonzi]

well if being cheated on in games counts ..... I have an older brother too .....odd I never won any games! (except ping pong- it's harder to get away with cheating...)

 

[JakeStarkey]

Yes oh yes...and I will never forgive or forget. Evokes nothing but hate inside me


I was about 8 years old and I was playing Monopoly with my older brother and he was the banker and well do I have to go on?...... that bastard.

 

[Bonzi]

.... do you think you can do/say/act a certain way to cause your partner to cheat (or make it more likely)?

 

[JakeStarkey]

A partner can make one want to cheat, sure.

Life is full of holes through which we can misstep.

 

[Vastator]

Almost all women are prone to cheating. It's in thier DNA. Always looking for the better deal...

 

[Bonzi]

Almost all women are prone to cheating. It's in thier DNA. Always looking for the better deal...

What about men?

 

[Bonzi]

A partner can make one want to cheat, sure.

Life is full of holes through which we can misstep.

I have found this to be true.
The one's I want to move on never did....
The one's I wanted not to, did......

Makes relationships seem like a chess match. If you "show your hand" you'll lose the game....

 

[Bonzi]

A partner can make one want to cheat, sure.

Life is full of holes through which we can misstep.

I've never wanted to cheat. Physically harm....? That's a different story!

 

[mdk]

Yes, only once. When I found out I ended the relationship that day.

All I did was receive a handjob, and you were holding the camera. Stop calling it cheating.

Next time ask me to join in. Selfish prig! lol

 

[Bonzi]

I don't think it's for a better deal.
Relationships get boring. But you can find "side fun" without cheating (doing anything physically sexual to be specific.....)

 

[Bonzi]

Yes, only once. When I found out I ended the relationship that day.

All I did was receive a handjob, and you were holding the camera. Stop calling it cheating.

Next time ask me to join in. Selfish prig! lol

no girls allowed though, right??? pfft.....

 

[aaronleland]

Yes, only once. When I found out I ended the relationship that day.

All I did was receive a handjob, and you were holding the camera. Stop calling it cheating.

Next time ask me to join in. Selfish prig! lol

no girls allowed though, right??? pfft.....

 

[Bonzi]

Yes, only once. When I found out I ended the relationship that day.

All I did was receive a handjob, and you were holding the camera. Stop calling it cheating.

Next time ask me to join in. Selfish prig! lol

no girls allowed though, right??? pfft.....

 

[Kat]

Better question to ask might be if any of us have ever cheated. We would know the answer as fact. Otherwise we kind of guess on others we have known.

I have known plenty that were cheaters too..