I don't see anyone in "my system" laying blame on the parents in any serious way whatsoever. Barack Obama gave lip service to the fact that parents needed to turn off the game systems and teach their children that their education was their responsibility and was important...but after he was elected, he never mentioned it again in any serious venue. The NEA, Dept. of Ed., etc. are blaming lack of funds, overcrowded classrooms, etc....they aren't blaming parents. Most people I talk to are blaming teachers and unions...just like many of you here...and many aren't blaming parents.
Teachers and others are asking for parents to help instill an understanding of the value of education because they understand how integral parents can be to the success of their children.
And most teachers (myself included...if you actually READ my post you'll see that I stated that parents were PART of the problem) will state openly and without hesitation that parents are only PART of the problem...not the sole problem.
It was JILLIAN who stated that parents were the sole problem. More specifically, she stated that anti-evolution parents were the sole problem. I stated that parents who do not teach their children that education is important but rather teach them to play victim are PART of the problem.
Nice try though.