It happened 23 years ago (she's 35).
She's still rather young!
Right now they've reduced the medicine levels about as much as they can. Unfortunately there are extenuating conditions (beyond her control) which exist that make dealing with the root of the problem difficult, if not almost impossible at this time. The medicine is likely permanent.
Oh Jesus. I am pleased to hear that her medicine levels have been lowered but there are a few things that worry me. I don't mean that they should worry you (or worry her) but ..... I am not in a position to contradict her therapist, particularly since I don't know her
'extenuating conditions' (as you say) but I am not in the same corner with those who use medicine as an excuse for .... uh ..... less than maximum competence. 'Competence' is too strong an expression, sorry. The only thing that I am not afraid to say is that if the therapist him/herself used those very words,
'The medicine is likely permanent' , then I suggest you get another opinion, if that's possible. She's only 35 for God's sake and it is expected that she will be on medication the rest of her life? Hmmmmmmm. I am not going to ask you what those
extenuating conditions' are and I don't think you should tell me either. I do think that she should be telling someone else. Someone competent. To be perfectly blunt, she is in a relationship with you so she's no basket case. If my wife were told that she can expect to be on medication the rest of her life, I'd be copying the yellow pages and getting to work. I once took flying lessons. My instructor was large and the little Cessna was always leaning to the right. He used to shout at me about it and i thought I must be doing something wrong, but I didn't know what. After all, he was displeased with me so it must have been my fault. One day he didn't show up for work so I went with another instructor. the Cessna flew straight as an arrow. Sometimes we trust a single professional and develop a dependence upon them, never realizing there are alternatives. Some are better some are worse.