If you oppose gay marriage why?
What harm does it do to you?
Did you also oppose open service in the military?
Here is the "what harm does it do to YOU?" angle. The reader is supposed to feel singled out, not really having a personal reason perhaps and fearing being labelled something. The idea is to shut the conversation down.
The issue isn't what harm it does to each separate individual, but what harm it does to a SOCIETY that each individual is a part of. When you mainstream deviant sexual behaviors as a cult, clamp completely down on ANY free speech that opposes it, you have indoctrinated an entire culture without their consent. This is made particularly pernicious when you consider that the etilogy of people belonging to the church of LGBT is really very little understood.
For instance, why are certain gay people attracted to all the trappings of the opposite gender in their "gay" spouse? Closet heterosexuality remains unexamined. Why does the church of LGBT have as its messiah one Harvey Milk, who was a serial sodomizer of orphaned teen boys on drugs? Still don't get that one.. Why have "bi-curious" events pitched at children with snacks, prizes and enticing events when surely kids must all be "born that way" right? What happened with Anne Heche's "born that way"?
And so on...
The harm of usurping main stream values for a vaguely understood cult that practices persecution for heretics [bigots, haters, homophobes] and zero tolerance for defection, without understanding what makes that cult tick, is a very very dangerous proposition for a
society to blindly walk into.
Leave the individual out of it. It's the herd over time that is going to be affected by this the most and all the individuals in it by extension..
Myth #1: "Born that way". If so, this wouldn't be happening. The entire premise of LGBT is based on a lie. Look what happens when you "tamper with" [consult gay vernacular] a whole society:
CDC Reports Troubling Rise in HIV Infections Among Young People
Every month, 1,000 young Americans become infected with HIV.
Young people aged 13 to 24 made up about 26 percent of all new diagnoses in 2010, even as other demographics have remained relatively stable, according to new information from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention...
...Given everything we know about HIV and how to prevent it, after more than 30 years of fighting the disease, its just unacceptable that young people are getting infected at such high rates, ...
...Most young people diagnosed with HIV today contract the disease through sex. For most young men, its through sex with other men....
CDC Reports Troubling Rise in HIV Infections Among Young People | ENDGAME: AIDS in Black America | FRONTLINE | PBS