Can Muslim women marry unbelievers and stay true to the Koran Kalam?
No (2:221.) If they did so or a man married a woman who adhered to some sort of polytheism, the union would not be recognized and any sexual activity between them would be sinful.
What are you missing? Where am I unclear?
The manner in which a Muslim supposedly thinks and speaks. You said that you made note of our words and tied them to "actions" and didn't elaborate beyond this.
Let me be clear then Kalam. When I say Muslim, I mean a true believer, and one who knows and practices their belief.
I have, heretofore said to you that your mind matters to me. Early on when I first came here and we were discussing the Chechen conflict. I said this because I believe you. When I ask you questions of the Koran that I personally know, you answer them all correctly.
What I see as minimization, etc. is dis-convergent culture.
Let me make an example. A given:
The methods of punishment and crime meted out by one culture is different than another culture.
Now you understand the effect on the West by a certain act as you previously said. However, you don't really understand why it is so abhorrent or important (so as to degree) to that other culture as you see the other culture doing things that your culture finds abhorrent and which that other culture espouses. Yes?
Put a small stone in your left hand and a large rock in your right hand. Do this when standing on a wooden floor. Holding both hands out, let both the rock and stone fall. One effects more damage than the other. Yes?
Holding the hands out and dropping the stone/rock is an event. So is stoning a man and a woman for adultery an event. Yes?
To your mind, it's appropriate when tied to the true word of Islam. Your stone is a tiny pebble of impact.
To the mind of the Western Philosophy, this act is the rock's impact.
Both the Western Philosophy and Islam have their own pebbles, stones and rocks of dis-convergent culture.
It's not a misconception of culture, it's a dis-convergence of culture. Your words show me this, and I tie them to the understanding I have of Islam, often given to me by true practicing and knowledgeable Muslims of which you are one.
So the act of the OP is tied to your view of the effect on a true believer.
It's not really minimization as it is the true effect on you. You are not effecting it in contempt or arrogance. It simply does not effect you in the same way it effects many of those in the Western culture.