Why do women set themselves up for disappointment when it comes to dating?

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    So... don't trust your avatar pic either?
     
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    I do .... that;s me now
    ,,,hmmm
     
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    Absolutely and totally....go to the house

    have a look

    get to know him (her)

    this is not a game
     
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    OK... ya... so we're supposed to believe that's you after you told us not to believe pictures... :lol:

    You know you're good looking if that is you.
     
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    huh?

    you see the photo first

    next you go and check it in person

    then you talk blah blah

    and all that

    then you like it or not

    then you stay or you move on

    that's it
     
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    Well true... IF the picture you see is of the real person, a RECENT picture...
     
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    of course

    that's why you go have a coffee/drink with her/him next to see if it is what it is! of course, photos have to be very recent

    to talk online?

    nope that's no good

    you have to see in person
     
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    Yeah coffee... drink... so formal... I say just meet and take a look at each other. If you like what you see then go have fun, do whatever. You HAVE to be attracted to each other first OBVIOUSLY, but if you are, it's really all downhill from there. Finding out if you're intellectually compatible is a task though.
     
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    I'm no expert at all

    But I like giving advise and telling people how it is....:04:

    Never trust 100%

    never
     
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    I hear that, and I'm not either. I haven't "dated" for years. Don't really give a damn. I have female friends and that's fine, we're "friends."

    But would I ever get married again? Sure. But that person would have to blow me away, and vice versa, I'd have to blow her away. The feeling has to be mutual. Something I have no freakin' hope for ever in this life time. Seems like people are just all too wrapped up in themselves.
     

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