Terry
Shut the $%$ Up!
- Jan 15, 2009
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No she does not have guarding-ship nobody does. My brother thinks the Government is after him and his little Social Security check. He thinks they watch him through the TV, cameras in the ceiling, and everywhere. He just got a cell phone so he can text, and thinks the gov. is now watching him through that. Everything is the GOV. He wont' go to a doctor because those doctors are working for the Gov. and he won't get his SS check. He won't pay a dime to help my mom nor care for himself.terry,
here are some hints...get all the legal docs together that you can find.
does your mother have guardianship over brother or just a family thing?
cell phone....you will come to find its your 3rd hand....you will always need to have it with you...
you need to learn to forward the house phone to the cell phone....(that is so you are not worried that someone is trying to reach you and cant)
realize...you are one person....you can only do so much...and yea...for some reason we do get paralized ...i do not know why...but i have long periods of just going kinda comatose...i think it is simple the mind trying to cope with all the stress...
somewhere is the control dude..going what the fuck is going on down there...what the hell are you peeps doing...i think when it just gets too much...he just shuts it down....and trys to reboot...i could give you an arms long list of stuff i dont get done in a day...guess what...they can use the damned dog towels...it wont kill them....i have seen people live on less than sticky buns and lemondae....
get the milk up...that stuff turns rancid....pretty fast...
o and the kindness of total strangers will amaze you. funny how our families will fuck us over in a heartbeat but total strangers will show you kindness....
He use to have to Cat to go to the bathroom, but he didn't want to pay for stuff he needed so now he just pushes on his stomach.
He needs those pads to put on his mattress for his bladder being so full it leaks. He won't pay a dime to buy them.
His wheelchair is 20 years old and STINKS to high heaven. We got him a new one but he doesn't like it, thinks Gov. has something installed on anything anyone gives him.
He cannot get in the bathtub any more. My sister told me how he showers, is he goes in the backyard with a bar of soap, turns on the hose and showers. So he showers like that about once every two weeks. He STINKS BAD.
He doesn't eat well, and everything he touches I wouldn't eat drink or anything, so he goes in the frig at times and drinks from containers, or picks to eat something (when he does eat) right from the frig with his filthy hands.
He cannot help it because his BRAIN is sick.
He got like this years ago. He came down with encephalitis, he had 4 brain surgery, shunt put in that no longer works but he won't go get help. He was getting 4 spinal taps a day, physical therapy had to move him around after each one because what I understand when you get many spinal taps its a catch 22. He should be on medication for his brain but stopped those 15 years ago. He has never been diagnosed as a paranoid skitziod but it is apparent with his paranoia.
He has no Medicaid he said because he doesn't go to any of these people for help because of course they are after him!
You cannot reason with him, his memory is bad, and he trust nobody!!!
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